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If you are falling for someone but are afraid to fall in love because of what it means or getting hurt how do you act or go about things???

 

 

Is there anything you would say or do that means 'love' in your own way without actually saying it..

 

What if you think Valentines day is overrated but you get your girl 10 pink roses.....?? Are you doing it because you 'should' or do you only do that if you really like soemone??

 

And if you want to meet your girlfriends child does that mean you are thinking about a future with this person??

 

 

sorry so many questions...

 

thanks

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If you are falling for someone but are afraid to fall in love because of what it means or getting hurt how do you act or go about things???

 

You can't stop yourself from falling in love and it sounds like you have already fallen. So long as your intentions are pure, then be brave and embrace it, as it doesn't come along very often. Just be yourself and don't let your inner wuss surface and become needy.

 

Is there anything you would say or do that means 'love' in your own way without actually saying it..

 

It really depends how long you have been seeing this girl for, but I would be trying to find out about her feelings for you. See if you can prompt her to do nice things for you - like cook you dinner.

 

What if you think Valentines day is overrated but you get your girl 10 pink roses.....?? Are you doing it because you 'should' or do you only do that if you really like soemone??

 

It sounds like you are looking for any excuse to show her you care, so sending her roses and short note are fine.

 

And if you want to meet your girlfriends child does that mean you are thinking about a future with this person??

 

Yes.

 

Tread carefully when dating mothers... read previous posts on this subject as their intentions many not be what you might expect.

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thanks for your reply. I am actually the woman in this scenario.Trying to understant a man....:rolleyes:

 

 

My ex and i do 50/50 shared care, i am not looking for money or for someone to take care of me. I have my own place, my own car, a job and i pay for half of everything when we go out. Sometimes i even shout and don't let him pay....:eek:

 

He stays with me from Thursday to Sunday during my child free days and visits on Wednesday night for a movie.

 

 

He told me a few days ago he would like to come and spend some time with my son and I.... he is only 2. He breifly met him last week on the front porch when he came to say goodbye before he went for a trip to his family farm. My 2 year old held up his cup and said 'juice' and my boyfriend has mentioned a few times since then how cute he thought it was and that i am very lucky.

 

 

 

 

ANywya thanks again for your thoughts. :)

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thanks for your reply. I am actually the woman in this scenario.Trying to understant a man....:rolleyes:

 

opps, sorry... the third person angle wasnt that obvious.

 

Just replace the her with him and the she with he :D, but don't quote me on that.

 

Sounds like your man is doing all the normal things to show he cares.

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