alphamale Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 The other nite (Fri) i met Dawn at this dinner/bar nite out on the east side. Most of the people there were single and by themselves. Around 25 single chicks were there. It was funny cause Dawn and I were sitting by ourselves and it was obvious that we were together. Every time Dawn would get up to go to the bathroom a single chick would come talk to me. One girl, Louise, even hinted that i should send her an email sometime...hahaha Twice this other chick came over and sat next to me to have a cigarette. Another chick asked me to dance while Dawn was talking to someone else (i refused). Another girl made some smarmy comment about me "being with my girl" Either way it shows that when a guy is taken his value goes up with all the other girls in the room.
calazhage Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 So true... When single it is nice to have attractive female friends..
phineas Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 Yep. When i got a GF the chicks from work started becoming interested in me at happy hour even when my GF was with me. When I got engaged they were asking me for rides home if my fiance didn't come out. before that they had ZERO interest in me but all of a sudden now that I was taken they were throwing themselves at me. I thought it was funny & stopped doing the happy hour with work people thing because they were pissing my fiance off.
sagetalk Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 This is what my married married friends have told me. Once your taken your value soars. Very weird and disturbing .
Author alphamale Posted February 14, 2010 Author Posted February 14, 2010 and women wonder why so many of their bf/husbands cheat. its cause now that they are spoken for they have more opportunity
VENUS1 Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 From personal experience, MM who have "thing" with OW whether online (gaming) or in RL need to re-evaluate what their vows meant and if they want to go down the path of OW, need to tell the W the path they want to travel, not play the secret game of hiding it.
eXtremeMan Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 This is what my married married friends have told me. Once your taken your value soars. Very weird and disturbing . It's not weird at all. It's called "social proof". Women naturally screen men before they do anything with them, and you being surrounded by other women simply preselects you, because she doesn't have the time or resources to test and screen every man. If a guy is with a quality woman, other women automatically assume it means he's a quality guy, since the woman has already chosen him... That's why many people who know what they're doing go to clubs with their female friends, it's much easier to have success with other women in that case.
Author alphamale Posted February 14, 2010 Author Posted February 14, 2010 If a guy is with a quality woman, other women automatically assume it means he's a quality guy, since the woman has already chosen him... indeed eXtremeMan
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