Vegas Baby Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 Ok so I've been with my bf for over 9 months now. The subject of him looking at p*rno came up when I looked on his computer once and found a website that he went to. I told him I don't like that distasteful stuff and I thought that was the end of it. Well he was showing me pics in his phone of something totally different and I saw a pic of a half naked pic, which by the way I've seen a similar pic in his phone before, but he says his guy friend sends him pics like that and so I ask why do you have them saved and he says he was going to forward them to his other guy friends. SO I got mad at him for even having those types of pics in his phone, especially since he said when we met that he's not that kinda guy that asks for naked pics or has them in his phone. Is it just a guy thing or do I have reason to be uspet? I just don't get the point of it, if he has a beautiful girl (me) to look at all the time? Like I said, I'm just mad that he said he wasn't that "type" of guy to do that thing in the beginning and obviously now I caught him in a lie.
counterman Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 A lot of guys watch porn. A lot of guys who say they don't watch porn, watch porn. I would not say it's a guy thing per se though. In my opinion, if he has you and he is satisfied with what he's getting then he can do away with the naked girls. However, will he do that is a different question. A lot of guys still look at that stuff even if they have beautiful girlfriends. I think the main concern is the lying. Obviously he is trying to save himself here. Openly admitting that he does have that stuff on his phone makes it sound like he is that "type" of guy (which he does not want you to think he is) and by not admitting it will make him a liar. If you are not okay with him looking at it them and you have told him, there is not much else you can do. It is either he keeps looking at them and you have to get use to it (or leave him if it is really bugging you) or he stops. Just don't want him lying that's all.
Bejita463 Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 The phone thing is a little suspicious. The porn thing, not so much.
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