Tasha1675 Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 Feeling low today. Anyone who has read my previous threads will know how well I have been doing and have kept up NC completely since the break up. It'll be four months since he ended things and despite telling a friend of mine just over a month ago that he still loves me, he hasn't once contacted me. I know I have to move on and I am slowly, but I just can't understand how someone can say they love you and not want anything to do with you. I guess he is trying to heal himself, it just feels so cruel and selfish. He knows how much he upset my life when we broke up (I had to move back home and quit my job etc) and I had to start again and he hasn't once checked in to see how I have been getting on despite telling me he loved me and saying it wouldn't be the last time I saw him. I admit, the contact he made with my friend made me hope he'd call me directly which I know was stupid but I couldn't help it. I guess he has shown his true colours but it hurts so much. I just have to keep telling myself that I miss the man I fell in love with, not the man he became when he broke my heart
sean1 Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 Feeling low today. Anyone who has read my previous threads will know how well I have been doing and have kept up NC completely since the break up. It'll be four months since he ended things and despite telling a friend of mine just over a month ago that he still loves me, he hasn't once contacted me. I know I have to move on and I am slowly, but I just can't understand how someone can say they love you and not want anything to do with you. I guess he is trying to heal himself, it just feels so cruel and selfish. He knows how much he upset my life when we broke up (I had to move back home and quit my job etc) and I had to start again and he hasn't once checked in to see how I have been getting on despite telling me he loved me and saying it wouldn't be the last time I saw him. I admit, the contact he made with my friend made me hope he'd call me directly which I know was stupid but I couldn't help it. I guess he has shown his true colours but it hurts so much. I just have to keep telling myself that I miss the man I fell in love with, not the man he became when he broke my heart every ex will always "love" you. just like you love your friends. and your pets. but its whether or not ther IN LOVE with you that matters. my ex said she stillloves and cares for me. but she isnt in love with me anymore. its hard to understand and come toterms with. carry on with n.c and just let go more and more each day. you will b fine!
Author Tasha1675 Posted February 14, 2010 Author Posted February 14, 2010 Thank you, yeah I guess he just isn't IN love with me. Ah! It sucks! I will stay strong though, oh yes!
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