katelyn98 Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 I met my bf online, hes like across the world from me. We really love each other and I know that but a few days ago, he told me he went to his ex gf's house cuz he said her family was cool. He said that after dinner, she said hi but he didnt answer,so she was like why r u being such a dick to her and so on. My bf started to tear a bit then walked away, she asked him to go back to her and he did, which is stupid. So, she hugged him for a few minutes then let go, then she kissed him... My bf apologised and said he felt really bad. I know he apologised but its really hard for me to forget this ever happened... I dont know what to do,I really need some advice...
curiousnycgirl Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 Have you met this person real time? If not then you really have no idea who or what you are dealing with. Frankly the situation you describe is bizarre and juvenile to me - how old are you guys? What do you mean she asked him to go back to her? You mean as bf/gf or just physically walk back towards her after walking away. Hard to tell you anything I can't understand your post.
Els Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 Honey, before I answer... You aren't truly 12 years old, right????
Author katelyn98 Posted February 15, 2010 Author Posted February 15, 2010 I'm 17 and i meant physically walk back towards her after walking away.
curiousnycgirl Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 You didn't answer my first question - have you ever met your b/f in person? Regarding what you can't forget - what the fact that SHE kissed him? What is your issue here? He didn't initiate it, I'm assuming he removed himself as quickly as he could, and he told you about it - what are you having problems with? Sorry but I'm missing something. BTW if you have not met him in person - then I strongly urge you to stop referring to him as your bf and start getting out there and dating. People are not the same on line as they are in real time. The hide behind their computers. You are 17 and should be out having fun. If you have met him in person, I still don't understand why/how you committed yourself to someone who you cannot see.
SuburbanOblivion Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 I completely agree. Not only are you too young for this sort of situation, but the fact is the guy has proven to be untrustworthy already by having gone there in the first place. Men who are committed don't 'hang out' at their ex-girlfriend's house for *any* reason.
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