olikst86 Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 Title says it all. i'll go more into detail as to what happened and what's been happening since the break up. I really don't know how to put this into words, but ill try my very best. My Ex and i broke up about 2 weeks ago. Her and her mother don't really get along, so she talked about moving in with her friend that lives closer to her father and brother. Anyways... she moved in with her friend and we still keep in contact. We talk almost everyday.. mostly about random junk, but of course sometimes about the relationship. She tells me she just needs time, that her life is really hectic right now with the move and new job. She says that if her life isnt straight we wont be happy. She knows i'm going through a hard time and that i'm trying to deal with everything. She still tells me that shes in love with me and that she misses me and that i have nothing to worry about when it comes to her her meeting other guys, even though i still worry. She tells me that her feelings for me will not change and that she doesnt want my feelings to change for her. This is where I need advice... how do i deal with this? Are things even going okay? Whats your overall opinion? She's a good girl, so don't be too harsh. Thanks for your time. I appreciate it a lot.
curiousnycgirl Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 She tells me she just needs time, that her life is really hectic right now with the move and new job. She says that if her life isnt straight we wont be happy. She knows i'm going through a hard time and that i'm trying to deal with everything. She still tells me that shes in love with me and that she misses me and that i have nothing to worry about when it comes to her her meeting other guys, even though i still worry. She tells me that her feelings for me will not change and that she doesnt want my feelings to change for her. This is where I need advice... how do i deal with this? Are things even going okay? Whats your overall opinion? She's a good girl, so don't be too harsh. Thanks for your time. I appreciate it a lot. You deal with it by breaking all contact with her. She is stringing you along. Why would she break up if she still feels that way? If she's busy fine, that doesn't mean she needs to break up. Something else is going on and you don't deserve to be played like this. Work on you, heal you - and move on. I don't mean to sound harsh, but trust me it's the way to go. I've been NC with my ex for nearly 11 weeks. At first it is hell - but in time I've begun to recover. Not completely - I'm far from that, but I'm doing better.
Author olikst86 Posted February 14, 2010 Author Posted February 14, 2010 You deal with it by breaking all contact with her. She is stringing you along. Why would she break up if she still feels that way? If she's busy fine, that doesn't mean she needs to break up. Something else is going on and you don't deserve to be played like this. I understand exactly what you're saying. The last thing I want to happen is to get played. I've also told her if i am wasting my time talking to her that she just needs to be brutally honest with me. I guess maybe i'm still thinking there is hope in this. That something can still be scavenged from the wreck. She gets angry/upset when i go out with friends and have a long night.. thinking ive met someone else. So i'm not really sure what to think of this. Maybe only time will tell?
curiousnycgirl Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 question is what are you going to be doing during that time?
Author olikst86 Posted February 14, 2010 Author Posted February 14, 2010 Probably try to relax more. It's what she wants me to do and I think I should do it. I know I sound really stupid, but I believe in what shes telling me. She's never lied to me during our 2yrs 8mnths of being together, so i dont see a reason to start. Do you think I should still just move on or try to see what happens? Everything counts.
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