angelaM Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 I've always said that after a breakup, but this time I think it's going to stick. My ex broke our engagement about 6 months ago, and that has hit me harder than anything I've ever been through. I meant it when I promised him forever, and I thought he did too. How can I ever trust again? I can't imagine being willing or able to take that risk with someone else; it just hurts too much this time.
yeyo tornapart Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 You cant blame everyone else who follows for the mistakes of ur ex. Yea it will b hard to trust again jus make sure you keep urself guarded. If you dont try to trust again u may miss out on something good and you dont want ur ex to have the satisfaction of ur unhappiness. Next time around never settle! Have high expectations! And never ignore the warning signs!!!
Blindgirl Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 I can understand your hesitancy. I think the first thing you have to realize is that your ex's choice has nothing to do with you, it was all about him. A partner does not make you happy, a partner should enhance the happiness you have created in you life. If you keep this perspective it does not matter what your partner does, yes you may feel pain, however, if you take charge of your happiness you will be OK no matter what. If you learn to trust yourself again, it has nothing to do with trusting another individual. Create a life tht supports you in body, mind and spirit, do not compromise that for anyone. I read somewhere that your capacity to love yourself, determines how much love you can give another and receive from another. Put your attention you, pull all your energy out of the relationship you had with him and give it to yourself.
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