Fender3494 Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 This was our first date so we met up for drinks and stayed for about 2 hours. We did laugh a little bit but also she did get distracted and looked around the room for a little bit but we eventually went on to three other different bars. I paid for everything during the course of the date. We hugged and hold hands for a little bit during the end of the date. I texted her the next morning to make sure she made it back home (we drank alot). She texted me back an hour or so later. Saying she did and thanked me for last night. I told her we need to do it again and she replied back 2 hours later saying definitely and just to let her know and we'll work something out.... Did the date go well? I havent spoke to her since the morning which was about two days ago.The date lasted around 5-6 hours. If the date went well when should I text her again?
USMCHokie Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 This was our first date so we met up for drinks and stayed for about 2 hours. We did laugh a little bit but also she did get distracted and looked around the room for a little bit but we eventually went on to three other different bars. I paid for everything during the course of the date. We hugged and hold hands for a little bit during the end of the date. I texted her the next morning to make sure she made it back home (we drank alot). She texted me back an hour or so later. Saying she did and thanked me for last night. I told her we need to do it again and she replied back 2 hours later saying definitely and just to let her know and we'll work something out.... Did the date go well? I havent spoke to her since the morning which was about two days ago.The date lasted around 5-6 hours. If the date went well when should I text her again? NEVER. Call her on the phone for god sakes, man...!!! Ask her out again. On the phone. If she says yes, then the first date went well. If she says no, it's probably safe to say that it did not go so well.
sid3 Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 Don't ask her out by text message. Call and ask her on another date. That's the only way to find out how the first date went.
Author Fender3494 Posted February 13, 2010 Author Posted February 13, 2010 Besides calling her instead of texting. How well did the date went by what I wrote?
USMCHokie Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 Besides calling her instead of texting. How well did the date went by what I wrote? Yes, the date sounded like it went fine. She stayed with you for 5 hours barhopping. That's a really long time, so she obviously felt comfortable and had fun with you. Yea, she may have looked distracted every now and then, but that's ok. The fact that she spent that much time with you is a good sign. Call her and ask her out again. That's the only way to know for sure. As we've all said, try to avoid texting during the early stages of dating...keep the calls short and simple to arrange the next date...
Vintage79 Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 It sounds fine - you sound like you had a good time, she hung around as you went from bar-to-bar, some contact, some laughing, and now she seems pretty responsive - sounds good to me. Now all you have to do is drop the low self esteem and you're golden.
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