LostInLimbo Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 (edited) its been about 4 weeks since my Ex left me a forth time, two weeks after her leaving me, through a txt message telling me she was moving out, kind of a shock to me,,, I went 2 weeks NC, when I finally txt her and told her mail was here, I asked her if she wanted it, told her it was her Cell bill (Monthly), she said NO, so I sent it as return to sender. 3 questions here, sorry, 1. Another Cell Bill came in for her, do I break NC and tell her to change her address? also 2. Her Doctors Office keeps leaving messages on my answering machine for her to call the office, Im never home when they leave them, do I tell her that? and break NC for it? 3. her Bday is coming soon upon, do I even txt her HB?.....when that day comes. I am doing well with NC and have no interest in Txting her back,especially when this is my 4th time getting kicked to the curb from her and cheating on me several times also.... she has txt me twice since the time I did, last one few days ago, thanking me for dumping her stuff off (assumed thats why and it was sarcastic as well) Thanks All LiL Edited February 13, 2010 by LostInLimbo
Ronni_W Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 3. No. 2. Let the doctor's office know to delete your number from their patient records for her. (Yes, you'll need to look-up the doctor's office number if the message doesn't include it.) 1. Option a -- just throw it in the garbage. Option b -- just keep 'returning to sender'. (She already made it clear she doesn't give a crap about her cell phone bill.) Stay strong and stay NC.
Author LostInLimbo Posted February 13, 2010 Author Posted February 13, 2010 (edited) 3. No. 2. Let the doctor's office know to delete your number from their patient records for her. (Yes, you'll need to look-up the doctor's office number if the message doesn't include it.) 1. Option a -- just throw it in the garbage. Option b -- just keep 'returning to sender'. (She already made it clear she doesn't give a crap about her cell phone bill.) Stay strong and stay NC. Thanks Ronni W kinda thought those answers myself, but it always is nice to hear it from an outside person looking in, as for the Doctors Office, I figured she left me with no problem again and planned it, of course she left 3 days after me driving her to her Dr's appointment, so she could have given her new cell number to them..then TY Again... LiL Edited February 13, 2010 by LostInLimbo
Ronni_W Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 LiL, Yeah...I kinda knew that you knew. It still sucks though, doesn't it, when all the "love and good stuff" gets replaced with having to angst over crap like this? I'm sorry you're going through it. Sending hugs...and strength for staying NC.
Author LostInLimbo Posted February 14, 2010 Author Posted February 14, 2010 LiL, Yeah...I kinda knew that you knew. It still sucks though, doesn't it, when all the "love and good stuff" gets replaced with having to angst over crap like this? I'm sorry you're going through it. Sending hugs...and strength for staying NC. Thanks Ronni W, yup, your right again, I think the best thing I had going for me, was I was always honest to my self, as well as not blaming myself, but taking the blame (if that makes sense?) because I always excepted her back into my life. Her history is : Picks a fight with me, leaves does what she has to do then returns, I let her back----- that repeated over and over, as mentioned, this is the 4th time and have no urges to contact her, may feel guilty not calling her on her BD, but that will pass, I just have to remember I never chose this, as well I should never have thought I was anyone special, especially when she left her 4 and 5 yr old children behind with her Ex, only wanting them on certain Days and for that I tried so hard to get her to fight for custody for them and have them move into my home, but she only got mad at me when I brought it up. The Kids is what kept me coming back....(I feel anyways) Thanks for the encouraging words, I needed that, and thank you for your time as well LiL
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