AvianChaos Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 My gf dumped me in May 09; I was absolutely crushed but these past 2 or 3 months have been ok. I can say that I feel like i don't really want her back anymore, but this friend of hers keeps contacting me. She says that the ex "needs me" and we were so much better when we're together; that it was meant to be. It's all such bull****, this really ****s with my head and I'm sick of all these emotions recurring again and again. I know her friend's comments mean nothing and that if she really wanted me back she would contact me, but still, it fills me with false hope and thoughts of her... just a rant.
CaliGuy Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Tell her friend that if she doesn't stop pressuring you (aka: respecting your boundaries) that she'll be an EX-FRIEND. Don't let people cross your boundaries like that. Put your dang foot down.
TaraMaiden Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 No. The best advice would be for you to realise that if your ex- really wanted you back, she'd tell you herself. I had a person keep ringing me up, once. Every time he rang, I'd say, "Oh, hi - hang on a second...." then I'd lay the phone down and forget it.... He soon stopped. his calls were costing him a fortune and getting him nowhere.... Blank any e-mails. Let them hit the bin before you even get to read them. Texts: send back this 'generic' message: "This is an auto-generated response: The above mobile number is not accepting texts at present." Hopefully, seeing that there's no way of getting to you - she'll give up.
CM2009 Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 Have the ex hit u back, screw all this talking through the friend....
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