Sadbutrelieved Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Today is pay day, and there won't be any calls about a. can I "loan" him money for cigarettes (never paid back, EVER); b. sobs stories about how he hasn't eaten and is starving, or his cat is starving, to guilt me into offering to buy him food; and c. no calls to ask "what's up for the weekend?" which translates into "can I stay at your place to use your internet all weekend, eat all your food and squeeze some money out of you." Now that I've had an entire week away from him, my eyes are wide open to his scams. When I was in the middle of dealing with him I always gave in. IF he ever misses me for one second, it'll be because he misses what I gave him, and not me. Before you all think I was the biggest sucker of all time, when our relationship started 8 years ago he worked, was working at improving his life by going to school, and wasn't letting his true colors though yet. Otherwise I wouldn't have looked twice at him.
Silver_star Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Today is pay day, and there won't be any calls about a. can I "loan" him money for cigarettes (never paid back, EVER); b. sobs stories about how he hasn't eaten and is starving, or his cat is starving, to guilt me into offering to buy him food; and c. no calls to ask "what's up for the weekend?" which translates into "can I stay at your place to use your internet all weekend, eat all your food and squeeze some money out of you." Now that I've had an entire week away from him, my eyes are wide open to his scams. When I was in the middle of dealing with him I always gave in. IF he ever misses me for one second, it'll be because he misses what I gave him, and not me. Before you all think I was the biggest sucker of all time, when our relationship started 8 years ago he worked, was working at improving his life by going to school, and wasn't letting his true colors though yet. Otherwise I wouldn't have looked twice at him. Good for you. I wish i could somehow convince my girlfriend who is in a relationship with guy similar to ur ex...to gett out now. But she wont hear me out.
nobmagnet Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 hello. Gin darling?? pull up a chair! Needy useless wilies on legs?? yes keep your cash babe spend it on you!!! on a more serious note yes he was a lowly worm and although you hurt right now he is well gone. Save you for MR Brilliant. He is there ( I hope) but if not n=be happy in you. Chin Chin love Nobby xx
Author Sadbutrelieved Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 LOL Nobby I was asked out to lunch today...I said maybe another time. I'm not ready to even be around another man at this point, but it's nice to know some still are attracted despite me being in the 40ish range. Who knew a breakup could be so liberating? I hope I'm not headed for a big crash!
nobmagnet Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 im hitting 40 in may! never felt more alive! 3 kids..........life............ fun..........bring it on!! let your lowly worm suffer,he will, Iput a song that when i ment my lowly worm was him......it still is. You may have oysters but you will never find a pearl. sweet. Tonic with you Gin love?? ice slice?? Nobby xxxxxx
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