Estranged Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 So I met a girl at a party and i think that we really clicked that night. "Problem" is when i asked her number, she requested i give her mine instead... What could that possibly mean? I was actually heading out and going to say goodbye but she saw me first and came to say goodbye. She was telling I should come to the next party, whenever it would be. I guess she hinted she wanted to see me again. anyways, i'm obviously confused any thoughts? should i hold my breath on her giving any sign?
SOLACEMENT Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Lets say... she may just like being in control...if she hadn't shown interest ...I may have a different reply But don't stress it ... just wait it out It can be for different reasons...reasons you should not be stressing about
Author Estranged Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 Lets say... she may just like being in control...if she hadn't shown interest ...I may have a different reply But don't stress it ... just wait it out It can be for different reasons...reasons you should not be stressing about what if she hadn't shown interest? (out of curiosity) anyways, how long should i wait (approx.)? i wouldn't mind if she didn't call at all but i don't really like waiting for nothing coz im not really patient
Barky Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 No way to know. It shouldn't matter to you anyway, because you're going to be getting out there and hitting on other girls. Right?
SOLACEMENT Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 If she hadn't shown interest...I know usually if I take a guys number it is just to be polite...but I am not her ..so I don't know what her reasons are But you shouldn't wait...if she calls she calls
Author Estranged Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 If she hadn't shown interest...I know usually if I take a guys number it is just to be polite...but I am not her ..so I don't know what her reasons are But you shouldn't wait...if she calls she calls yeah i'll do that... but is it just possible that she calls or text?
sullysteve Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Normally, when you ask a girl for her number and she tells you to give her yours instead, she isn't going to call. But, your case is a little different because she approached you at the end of the party. She may be interested in you, but not romantically. Let us know how it turns out, because I'm curious. Bottom line: always get her number. This has worked for me in the past: tell her you're a little old-fashioned, and you think that the guy should be calling the girl first. The whole thing may be a little game she's using to test your worth.
SOLACEMENT Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 yeah i'll do that... but is it just possible that she calls or text? To me it seems like she is interested but may be someone right now... so it may be a while...I dont know-- thats just how it seems So yes it is possible
Author Estranged Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 To me it seems like she is interested but may be someone right now... so it may be a while...I dont know-- thats just how it seems So yes it is possible yeah makes sense... at least i tried instead of just sitting in a corner haha i needed closure on that
SOLACEMENT Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 To me it seems like she is interested but may be someone right now... so it may be a while...I dont know-- thats just how it seems So yes it is possible Wow I really need to reread before posting..sigh .. lol yeah makes sense... at least i tried instead of just sitting in a corner haha i needed closure on that Yes way better than sitting in a corner
Author Estranged Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 Normally, when you ask a girl for her number and she tells you to give her yours instead, she isn't going to call. But, your case is a little different because she approached you at the end of the party. She may be interested in you, but not romantically. Let us know how it turns out, because I'm curious. Bottom line: always get her number. This has worked for me in the past: tell her you're a little old-fashioned, and you think that the guy should be calling the girl first. The whole thing may be a little game she's using to test your worth. woops! i didnt see your post. so let me reply for each sentence lol. F%^$ how do i quote each sentence separately? XD anyways... So i guess she isn't going to call. I'm ok with that. I wished i knew about the last paragraph. I always thought that insisting to get her number after she declined to would look like harassing; in my case she didn't say no directly but rather asked for mine and just said something in the vein of "i'll see after that" ... you get the point.
bac Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 There is no certain signs when it comes to young girls behavior. Go with flow, do not give up and do whatever she wants. She probably hardly knowns herself what she wants and even if she thinks she knows, she might change her attutude to the opposite point of view quite soon.
Author Estranged Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 There is no certain signs when it comes to young girls behavior. Yeah i noticed ... but stupid & hopeless me keeps coming back for more Go with flow, do not give up and do whatever she wants. Absolutely...
Author Estranged Posted February 13, 2010 Author Posted February 13, 2010 No way to know. It shouldn't matter to you anyway, because you're going to be getting out there and hitting on other girls. Right? i didnt see your post either i should get my eyes checked ><" well i'm still lookin for that special someone, if she ever exists, even though all signs pointed out i'm never gonna find her...
You'reasian Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 So I met a girl at a party and i think that we really clicked that night. "Problem" is when i asked her number, she requested i give her mine instead... What could that possibly mean? I was actually heading out and going to say goodbye but she saw me first and came to say goodbye. She was telling I should come to the next party, whenever it would be. I guess she hinted she wanted to see me again. anyways, i'm obviously confused any thoughts? should i hold my breath on her giving any sign? Wouldn't sweat it. Give her your number. Tell her you were really glad to meet her and really mean it. Don't expect a phone call and instead keep on playin' playa!
Author Estranged Posted February 13, 2010 Author Posted February 13, 2010 Wouldn't sweat it. Give her your number. Tell her you were really glad to meet her and really mean it. Don't expect a phone call and instead keep on playin' playa! yeah as far as this girl is concerned, i'll have no problems moving on. I just needed to know what it normally meant when a girl declines to give her number and asks for mine instead. There were some instances when i actually got numbers and called but never got an answer though...
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