Don'tWannabeAWannabe Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 A couple of times before, when I've asked about meeting girls in clubs and bars, a lot of people have said something along the lines of "you won't find quality women at the club." This is baffling to me. What is a "quality woman?" Because I value beauty and youth, and when you go to the club, you see so many beautiful girls everywhere. They are "quality women" to me. So what am I getting wrong?
SOLACEMENT Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 You are not getting anything wrong...A club may not be a quality place to meet girls for some people...since they may not want a "club girl" but I don't see what that has to do with you Only way I may agree with a club may not be a good place to meet someone ... is that it may be dark in the club... lol I am kidding But it all depends on what you are looking for
crosswordfiend Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 They are referring to the actual merchandise rather than the fancy packaging. I think it's quite an unfair generalization. They equate meeting girl in bar/club with all this type of girl wants to do is party in a bar/club which is an undesirable "quality". In reality everyone goes out to have a good time once in a while and so it is quite difficult distinguish between the professional party girls and ordinary civilians. In your case, since what you value is beauty and youth it shouldn't really matter.
txsilkysmoothe Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Quality woman means the kind of woman you want to marry, have children with, the kind that will impress your mom. That definition varies from man to man and if you aren't interested in marriage or a serious relationship, it becomes less important. Quality women do go to bars but they are not bar flies, meaning they are not at bars every night of the week, regularly. Quality women are at night class - improving their minds, if mom's - they're at home with their children, recognizing the importance - they're spending evenings with their parents, grandparents, they're working - supporting themselves instead of expecting a man/government to do it. There is nothing wrong with appreciating beauty but quality resides within.
Silver_star Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Hey if what your looking for is beauty and youth go to a club. Depending on how you define "beauty" you will find alot of girls. But be honest with yourself about what you are looking for: a lay, a body, an ego boost...and not a person to be compatible with, because that person's value comes in personality not in looks. In my opinion.
phineas Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 It's not a rule, but check out the cheating & seperation forums. So many stories about men who's women were club rats & settled down with them then a yr or 2 later started going back out to clubs regularly. without them. These women in most cases have turned out to be cheating. women that spend their time in clubs are not quality women in my eyes. when I was younger i didn't care if a woman was a club rat to not because I wasn't looking for a wife. But as I got older I stayed away from women that always went clubbing because they didn't seem like quality women to me. It's not exact because my wife didn't go to dance blubs when we were dateing. She started going out to clubs & bars without me to be with her BF after we were married.
stevejohnson1976 Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 about 5'-2", under 110lbs, college grad, under 24yrs old, at least a C cup and fantastic azz
Silver_star Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 about 5'-2", under 110lbs, college grad, under 24yrs old, at least a C cup and fantastic azz good luck with that. Under 110lbs with a C cup. Yeah thats really realistic for a 24 yr old woman. Good luck procreating in the future with a bullemic made of silicone, better leave it at woman on top or youll break her malnutritioned bones.
Twenty-ten Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 A quality woman is a woman you can embrace in every respect and feel that they are not only someone you hold a strong sexual desire for and find beautiful, you also hold them in high regard in terms of what they can offer as a partner in life, a best friend, and a trusting loving companion. Quality is having all the traits that we seek for the long term and when the sexual desire and infatuation levels out.
Eeyore79 Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 That isn't fair; some women are genuinely petite. A petite 5ft2 girl probably wouldn't weigh much anyway... but she wouldn't have C-cups. I'm 5 inches taller, 15 pounds heavier, and *I* don't even have C-cups.
Silver_star Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 A quality woman is a woman you can embrace in every respect and feel that they are not only someone you hold a strong sexual desire for and find beautiful, you also hold them in high regard in terms of what they can offer as a partner in life, a best friend, and a trusting loving companion. Quality is having all the traits that we seek for the long term and when the sexual desire and infatuation levels out. Amen to that. Well said.
Silver_star Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 That isn't fair; some women are genuinely petite. A petite 5ft2 girl probably wouldn't weigh much anyway... but she wouldn't have C-cups. I'm 5 inches taller, 15 pounds heavier, and *I* don't even have C-cups. Sorry to offend the petite. I have many petite friends. But none of them have c cups either..and if thats his idea of a woman well its just not realistic. Not in the realm of being natural..his idea of a woman is surgically "enhanced" to meet societal standards of beauty and i dont agree with that at all.
sullysteve Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 OP, quality means different things to different people, depending on what they are looking for and what they value. The other posters have given very eloquent definitions of what they consider a quality woman. You want to pickup beautiful women in nightclubs and bars. Power to you for knowing what you want. I suggest you look on the web for pickup artist (PUA) tips and guides. There's a myriad of websites and forums out there dedicated to that kind of thing. Let us know what you find, and how well it works in practice
Crazy Magnet Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 That isn't fair; some women are genuinely petite. A petite 5ft2 girl probably wouldn't weigh much anyway... but she wouldn't have C-cups. I'm 5 inches taller, 15 pounds heavier, and *I* don't even have C-cups. I'm about 5'5", around 105lbs, and I have a C cup. My family just has big boobs! When I gain weight (which I'm always trying to do) it goes RIGHT to the boobs. Always. I've had people ask me if they were fake before. But nope, very real. My BF loves it obviously. But I'm 30, not 24, so I can't help that one guy out! lol
stevejohnson1976 Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 good luck with that. Under 110lbs with a C cup. Yeah thats really realistic for a 24 yr old woman. Good luck procreating in the future with a bullemic made of silicone, better leave it at woman on top or youll break her malnutritioned bones. I was joking...relax!!!!
Zeegagge Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 A quality woman to me is one who doesn't cheat.
sally4sara Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Every guy who scans the crowd at a club/bar and laments about the lack of quality women therein needs to look down and realize where his feet are standing. Gotta be in the club yourself to see the folks you deem trashy.
Awesome Username Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Every guy who scans the crowd at a club/bar and laments about the lack of quality women therein needs to look down and realize where his feet are standing. Gotta be in the club yourself to see the folks you deem trashy. I'm agreeing with this!
alphamale Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 What is a "quality woman?" me mum was a quality woman...she was beautiful, educated and always put her family first
SOLACEMENT Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Every guy who scans the crowd at a club/bar and laments about the lack of quality women therein needs to look down and realize where his feet are standing. Gotta be in the club yourself to see the folks you deem trashy. Got to agree
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