Thebob Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 is that just a load of crap or what? there is a girl for everyone and she'll eventually find your way in your arms? That line makes me think like God specifically put her on this earth to one day find you in your arms. If that is the case then everyone would be in a relationship and married when 50 years old or higher.... idk that line bugs me, hopefully I'm not the only one cause I don't wanna wait eventually lol Thebob
espec10001 Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 The belief that "it'll happen when you least expect it" only applies to women because the man has to make it happen, men have to do the choosing, the asking out, and the work. Women just have to be passive and let men come to them, hence for women "it'll happen when you least expect it".
DustySaltus Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 People meet others in the weirdest places. I met one of my ex's in home depot when she was trying to pull down a 25 bag of soil and the bag ripped open and spilled all over her. Luckily, I had just came from basketball and had a spare towel and some other things in my car....we were together for 6 years. I walked into the place never thinking about when or where I would meet someone and I did..go figure. On the opposite end I reconnected with an EX via facebook nearly 10 years later and did all the pursuing, we were together in summer camp at first. Moved to another country, asked her to marry me, got engaged, broke up and now I have no idea what's going to happen down the line.... We all need something to believe in to keep us sane.
Author Thebob Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 lol, idk i just feel that line is a little bogus since women have it a million times easier than the man. The man has to have the balls to go up and talk to the girl, she judges and decides if she wants to go on the date with you. She decides after that if she wants to keep dating you, then if your lucky enough you get in to the relationship. Thebob
Brady_to_Moss Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 The belief that "it'll happen when you least expect it" only applies to women because the man has to make it happen, men have to do the choosing, the asking out, and the work. Women just have to be passive and let men come to them, hence for women "it'll happen when you least expect it". x10000 It only applies to women...guys actually have to do work even through the girl should put in at least some effort
paddington bear Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 I'm a woman and I hate this stupid line too, it comes from people who are already coupled up and assume that because it happened for them that it will happen for you too. Let's face it, meeting the right one can happen unexpectedly, or it can happen when you are making a concerted effort or it can happen when you're half bothered about finding someone and the other half of you, not really caring either way. Luck plays a part, but then we can all help luck out by not sitting in at home on our own all the time, by trying to look our best when out and about and keeping our eyes open 'just in case'.
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