JohnE Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 So, me and this girl have geen going out for like a month and a half now. Things were going pretty good, but out of the blue she said she needed space. On saturday, she called to ask if I cared if she went out with her friends, we would hang out sunday (she wanted me to come to meet her parents) Then she texted me and said she needed to talk to me in the morning. I had that feeling that it wasn't going to be good, she told me we needed space, and I didn't really have anything to say. So do you think it is over, or should I give it some time and call her?
skydiveaddict Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 sorry to tell ya bro, but when you get the "I need space" speech, it's done. You are now in the "friendzone". I can promise you the next time she calls you will get the " I just wanna be friends" thing. Cut her loose and move on
paleblue Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 JohnE i wouldnt even bother calling her again. if she wants to thats one thing, than you decide if you want to deal with her, other than that i wouldnt pick up the phone and call her again. she is wasting your time. a month and a half isnt jack as far as seeing someone and if you are hearing her whine about it already, chances are its not going to get any better. show her you are not a doormat by ignoring her. and ifshe does call i would put up a little resistance. make her work for it a little.
Author JohnE Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 Yeah, I know I shouldn't call her. It's always when you find one that you really like you get dumped. It just gets frustrating. Im tired of the one night stands and thought I finally found a good one to get into a relationship with. Oh well.
sullysteve Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Yeah, I have to agree with the posts above, I think it's over. You've been "friended". Best thing to do is to reflect and see if you made any mistakes (like being needy or clingy) and to learn from them if you did. Sorry bro.
whichwayisup Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Need to ask. Did you two spend basically all your time together? It could very well be she just wants to still be able to do things on her own, with friends, or be alone at times and not have to feel obligated to see you every day or every weekend (night). Or, maybe this is the I need space thing.
USMCHokie Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Sorry to say...you and her are done'ski...it was just a month and a half...be grateful for the experience you had with her and move on to someone who deserves your attention...
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