Myangel102208 Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 So I see this guy(my co-worker) almost everyday and we work in the same area for awhile we were flirting by teasing and picking on eachother or he would (what seemed like to me) try to catch my attention by being funny/clumbsy in a silly way. We have small talk every now and then and some days he seems to just ignore me/ not talk to me much at all even when I try and I think he's just in a bad mood so I try to brighten it up (which doesn't seem to work) anyhow he seems to talk alot more with our other co-workers so that brings up the question is he just being shy with me because he's nervous around me or just not interested at all? I catch him glancing at me now and then as if he was "checking me out" and we have made some eye contact but that's about as far as it goes. What can I do to really make sure he's attracted to me before making a first move without straight forward asking him?(I'm shy with that) and if he is attracted to me what can I do to step up the game a bit without scaring him off? I find it very hard to come up with conversations(which I do first 80-90% of the time) how do I get him to open up more to me? I joke and pick on him and talk about serious things and ask him about things in his life (intrests problems ect,) I havnt been really in the dating scene latley due to getting myself back on my feet but I am really attracted to this guy. Any advice? Much apreciated!! Ps Im kind of at the point where I want to be spontaneous and just randomly kiss him when it's just me and him lol
soulm8 Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Well, they do say not to get involved with coworkers for a reason... but if you hafta learn for yourself, just ask him if he'd like to grab a coffee or lunch sometime.
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