kwyser Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Hey everyone. Many people want to get back with their ex after a break up. Often the ex also wants to get back and there is the opportunity for a second chance and reconciliation. However, is this always the best choice? Think about what went wrong in the first place. Did your ex treat you bad? If you were constantly being mistreated by them then if you get back into the relationship it may happen all over again, and they will just hurt you all over again. However, if the relationship ended and you both moved on for a little while and you truly feel they and you have changed for the better, then you should think about getting back into the relationship. Only you can decide what is best.
abdellost Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Me and my girl been together for 5 years. we both got controlling and overprotective, BUT HONEST TO GOD, i never noticed it. i am from America and shes high class Egyptian. so we both had free open mindes. but slowely, because of jelousy and being possessive we started putting dumb rules on each other. I used to walk around with girls and joke around and stuff. she used to hang out with my friends and hit them and run after them (we were young). she didnt like the fact that i talk to girls because they always tend to fall for me. so she got jelouse one day and we fought and such. so one thing we knew about our relationship: what goes for me goes for you sort of thing. so she stoped talking to guys, I to girls (except if they talk to us). we stopped doing this and that and this and that. it killed us little inside and i never noticed. i actualy was depressed for 3 month before the break up because all i used to do was go to the gym, college,see her and then stay home. cuz everyone was always out with bunch of girls at clubs and stuff and if i ever dare to go with them, oh boy. I did my share of **** to her too though. Anyways she broke it off. i asked if she still loves me knowing 100% she'll say yes, she said i dont know. even though the day before she was crying because she missed me and wanted to see me so bad and i was busy. 2 weeks and no contact. i was her first kiss and everything, and thats a big deal before marriage. mehhh. when should i try to talk to her again? i tried the day after the break up cuz she did it by text, ( i know, so dumb). thanks
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