justagirl09 Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 I have been talking to this guy on this dating site for a little while now, and we have made plans to meet. Anyways, there is this other girl on the forum who goes after ever guy on there including this one i am talking to. I get along with everyone, but this girl makes posts and is clearly trying to push my buttons. She hooked up with another guy on that site, who was new so i dont trust her at all. If he had wanted to meet her, then i would back off and be like fine. But he has been messaging me. She flirts with him on the boards, which everyone does but she does it with almost a sense of desperation and aggression and i know she is trying to get to me. Her posts are getting more and more pathetic and aggressive by the minute and i am not going to crack, but i am literally biting my tongue not to say anything to her about her behavior. A bunch of us made plans for a trip to Los Angeles and the guy and I are going to spend it together. So she made a comment pretty much hinting that he better hook up with her in so many words. She just keeps making these comments, and at first i thought it was all in good fun, but i know she is trying to get a reaction out of me. It is pretty clear to everyone on that site that he and I are interested in each other, but this girl just doesnt care at all. I am getting anxiety about this trip. Of course, i wouldnt say anything becasue i dont want to stir up any drama. But how can i ignore these comments?? i am burning inside, but i dont want to scare the guy off. He didnt respond to her comments, and the ones he does he is kind of friendly but not too flirty. Everyone flirts and he is making plans with ME not her, so i am not mad, it just bothers me Dont know where to post this. I have been talking to this guy on this online dating site, so a bunch of us are going to a trip to LA. He and we have been messaging privately, and are going to spend the trip together. Well, this other girl who hooked up with this guy who was on the site for maybe 2 weeks chimed in on one of the threads, making reference to him and something that was a joke in one of the threads made it seem like he better hook up with her. She knows were into each other, and she is always making these comments to him and being almost desperate like. I ignore it because I know she is trying to get a rise out of me. She is known for going after guys that other girls are seeing. I dont know when she made that comment, i felt inclined to say something but that wouldnt be mature or discreet. Just makes me really anxious about this entire trip. She was on the site before me as was he, if he wanted to meet up with her, he would have, but he made a decision to start talking to me and getting to know me, but this just really gets to me. Dont know where to post this. I have been talking to this guy on this online dating site, so a bunch of us are going to a trip to LA. He and we have been messaging privately, and are going to spend the trip together. Well, this other girl who hooked up with this guy who was on the site for maybe 2 weeks chimed in on one of the threads, making reference to him and something that was a joke in one of the threads made it seem like he better hook up with her. She knows were into each other, and she is always making these comments to him and being almost desperate like. I ignore it because I know she is trying to get a rise out of me. She is known for going after guys that other girls are seeing. I dont know when she made that comment, i felt inclined to say something but that wouldnt be mature or discreet. Just makes me really anxious about this entire trip. She was on the site before me as was he, if he wanted to meet up with her, he would have, but he made a decision to start talking to me and getting to know me, but this just really gets to me. Dont know where to post this. I have been talking to this guy on this online dating site, so a bunch of us are going to a trip to LA. He and we have been messaging privately, and are going to spend the trip together. Well, this other girl who hooked up with this guy who was on the site for maybe 2 weeks chimed in on one of the threads, making reference to him and something that was a joke in one of the threads made it seem like he better hook up with her. She knows were into each other, and she is always making these comments to him and being almost desperate like. I ignore it because I know she is trying to get a rise out of me. She is known for going after guys that other girls are seeing. I dont know when she made that comment, i felt inclined to say something but that wouldnt be mature or discreet. Just makes me really anxious about this entire trip. She was on the site before me as was he, if he wanted to meet up with her, he would have, but he made a decision to start talking to me and getting to know me, but this just really gets to me.
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