imanust Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 Hi everyone, I registered just to post this as its been nagging me and my friends can't seem to offer anything constructive. I hate dating plain and simple. I never really "dated" the girls i've had long relationships with as we just kind of fell into a relationship so i'm no good at it really. Anyway, the last two weeks i've been out with this girl twice. She's been to my house, i've met and made a good impression on her best friend, we've made out a couple times and the conversation is good. All positive right? Not so much. I've had to initiate everything, phone calls, dates etc and it's really left me wondering how she feels despite the positive signs i've listed above. Lately she dosen't seem to want to commit to any sort've date. She does work alot and usually on the weekends she travels back to her hometown to see family. So that leads me back to my original question, has she lost interest? Playing hard to get?
The Paper Knight Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 I know you dont want to play games, but now its time to PLAY! go total NC. Heck go out and meet some other woman! ...then if she calls you back, great! Just be cool and 'listen' to what she has to say next - before you put yourself out again. translation: do exactly the opposite of what you are actually thinking of doing!
Rulebreaker Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 The Rules (which I'm following right now) are sort of the typical "hard to get" for a girl. It doesn't sound like she's playing hard to get, at least not under the Rules. Move on.
thegreatmoose Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 The Rules (which I'm following right now) are sort of the typical "hard to get" for a girl. It doesn't sound like she's playing hard to get, at least not under the Rules. Move on. F*** "the Rules". No, more like playing impossible to get. All that needs to be said is this one, called "rule #5". Don't Call Him and Rarely Return His Calls How can I ask a woman out if she won't return my calls? Is there some trick to ask someone out without contacting them that I don't know about? Don't say call again because most women do NOT like that. Every time I've done that, that's the end of all contact with her so I don't do that anymore. At least the OP can reach the woman. With "the Rules" even doing that would be next to impossible.
In_Repair Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 Why wonder? Just talk to her about it. You have every right at this point to address this issue with her.
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