sweetblubrry Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 I am so confused. I have been dating this guy since Dec 30th, and thngs have been fantastic! We have both met each others families but he has not called me his gf yet. I am confused because sometimes we will see each other 2-3x a week (he has a full time job and im full time in school and we live 2 hours away!!) and other times he barely talks to me at all that week. He said at the beginning that he has no interest in seeing others because I am what he is looking for. I want more by this point, but he isn't giving it! I know he is capable because he does do it during some weeks and he did at the beginning. Last week was so great the time we spent together. I went to his place, he came to mine, we went out, theme parks, etc. But this week I am barely hearing from him! If I text him he answers but I am so frustrated by this. Is this normal guy behavior? He hadn't brought up wanting to see my on valentine's day and I have a performance that night so I decided to just invite him. He said he could go. I then told him no worries about valentines and that I'm just happy to see you. And no response after that. I am so confused!! What is going on? Every other week or so it gets like this and its so up and down. I just want him to say we are official so I'll be more okay with it knowing we are committed to each other. i want to bring it up on sunday, because I can't take this up and down anymore. I'm a very parenoid girl because i've been so hurt in the past. I just don't understand whats going on here, any advice?
EYECANDY000 Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 Why do you feel that it will be different if you two are official? If this is his behavior now, what will change when you two are together? Do you know if he may be dating someone else as well? It seems like there isn't a lot of conversing and when there is its through text. You two need to really talk and see what's expected from one another. Then maybe you wouldn't expect so much.
EM47 Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 yeah in this thread or the other, you said basically texting was the only way you talked bc you hate the phone. well here is some news for you...texting SUCKS as your only way to communicate. its fine for a quick hi or I miss you or to make plans etc but as your ONLY form of communication between face to face meetings? that's not healthy in my opinion. and I know...I have been down that path before...and won't make the same mistake again.
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