secretcrush Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 When guys start making physical contact with a girl by doing things like putting their arm around your shoulder, squeezing your shoulder or rubbing your arm are they flirting or showing that they're attracted or are they simply being friendly?
carhill Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 As a male, unless I've known the lady a long time and we're close friends, such physical contact is inevitably based on attraction. A less likely scenario is you have something he wants and he's attempting to manipulate you to get it. Women have done that to me, both physically and sexually, but you figure out the difference after awhile. I'd call it a flirt unless he's a long-time friend, especially if his body language is open and he looks in your eyes a lot.
sullysteve Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 He might be interested and may be testing the waters to see if you're interested too. If he perceives that you're comfortable with his touch and even respond favorably to it, he'll take it as a good sign. On the other hand, if you pull away, he'll assume the opposite.
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