cdt76 Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 I'm getting back into dating 7 months after a horrendous breakup. I have been talking to 3 girls. All are nice. This weekend I will be going out with all three individually for the first time. I'm not a player and will not tell a girl something just to get in her pants and will end it after one date if there is no chemistry. But my question is, is dating multiple people a bad thing? I'm not having sex with any of them. Just dating. Wanted some advice. I haven't found anyone I want to settle into. Want to take the next relationship a lot slower. Just need some advice. I suck at dating.
The Paper Knight Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 Feel free to date as many women as you like, but stay true yourself and don't get seduced by lust. Don't tell them about your previous relationship as that was your own experience, which you have learned can cause suffering. Also don't talk about starting a relationship with them as that will sound needy, just be yourself and see if they respond to who you are. You will find women love to ask allot of questions when they are interested in you, so listen to what they ask you and throw the question back at them, as they are doing it to find out whether you are compatible, so you can do the same. Make a list of values of what you really think are important for a potential partner to have, like having a close family (e.g. are there parents still together) and talk to the women you are dating to see if they are on the same page. Well that’s my 2 cents worth - Have fun and keep us posted.
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