themusichorse Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 When I had asked my ex how he felt about me and confronted him telling him that i felt like he was playing mind games with me he told me he still loved me and wants to be with me and cares about me but he wants me to travel 150 miles to ask him out. I asked him why asking him out online wasn't good enough and he said that it wasn't right...i had asked him out online because I cant call him on the phone because his parents are checking his phone statements because they dont want him to be with me and his parents wont help him pay for his college education if he is with me. so he got all mad at me and said i hope your happy because i am not i asked you for something simple and reasonable to come and ask me out in person when you come to visit people, so he said we were in a relationship and he wanted me to ask him out so yeah, i guess we are dating now....i am confused. I have been getting mixed messges though because when I talk to him online and via text he seems to want me to send him nasty pictures and wants me to have sex with him when i come and see him. He also doesn't want to tell any of his friends or anyone that we are "dating" or in a "relationship" right now. that kind of bothers me. What should i do???
TaraMaiden Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 Find a nicer guy closer to home. If there is so much going against you being together, there are times when the results are not commensurate with the effort you put in. Cut your losses, let him find a girl he doesn't have to hide, and you find a guy who wants you, openly, fully sincerely and happily. To show off to everyone.
TaraMaiden Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 ...hang on..... If he's your ex - why the heck are we even having this discussion - ?? Just don't contact him any more, and don't respond to him! Leave him alone, and don't ever speak to him again!
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