fiat500 Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 Help. Is there something wrong with me? My last serious relationship was two years ago and I haven't dated since. It lasted 3 years. I'm 23. Should I just start saying yes to the next guy who asks even if I don't feel attracted to them just for the experience? I feel so blah. I don't really have the urge to date. I guess I should be worried?
counterman Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 No, if you are not attracted to them don't go out with them. It will end badly. Just be fair to the guy if you are not interested. If you are feeling a bit jaded, focus on other aspects of your life i.e. where you can have fun and your career. Don't be so worried, because whenever you feel that urge to date again, start dating again.
Author fiat500 Posted February 10, 2010 Author Posted February 10, 2010 thanks. i was starting to get depressed because i don't like making people feel bad. especially if i don't feel the same way another person feels. i do try to be nice about saying no.
counterman Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 The will feel even worse once they realise you were never really into them. Whenever you are saying no, do not beat around the bush to much and just say you are not interested. There will be guys that you are attracted to that will ask you out, so do not worry to much. Focus on enjoy yourself with your friends and family and, if you see a guy you are attracted to, go talk to him.
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