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Went onto the shared pc in my partner and myselfs flat today.

 

His email was open, there were 2 separate mails thanking him for replying to NSA fun on gumtree from 2 diff females and telling him they were busy that weekend with another man. Weekend is next weeknd.

 

Now he never goes away weekends and hadnt mentioned anything.

 

There is a small history there of cyber flirting though.

 

Now Im in paranoia mode. Any chance these were just spam? I cannot ask him, as I was snooping, no excuses, I read when I should have just closed his mail.

 

Please help I need anykind of advice..................

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Let me get this straight..you personally saw where he'd replied to a couple of classified ads for no strings attached sex with strangers, and you think you may be over-reacting? Seriously?

 

If he hasn't cheated on you already, he is clearly trying to.

 

If it were me his ass would be out the door, no questions asked.

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Went onto the shared pc in my partner and myselfs flat today.

 

His email was open, there were 2 separate mails thanking him for replying to NSA fun on gumtree from 2 diff females and telling him they were busy that weekend with another man. Weekend is next weeknd.

 

Now he never goes away weekends and hadnt mentioned anything.

 

There is a small history there of cyber flirting though.

 

Now Im in paranoia mode. Any chance these were just spam? I cannot ask him, as I was snooping, no excuses, I read when I should have just closed his mail.

 

Please help I need anykind of advice..................

 

If you share a PC and his e-mail was in fact open, as you say, I think you definitely can confront him. It would be one thing to hack into his e-mail account but he left it open.

 

If I were you I would definitely mention it. Mention it casually and his reaction should tell all. If he gets flustered and turns red or something he's probably been caught in the act.

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Went onto the shared pc in my partner and myselfs flat today.

 

His email was open, there were 2 separate mails thanking him for replying to NSA fun on gumtree from 2 diff females and telling him they were busy that weekend with another man. Weekend is next weeknd.

 

Now he never goes away weekends and hadnt mentioned anything.

 

There is a small history there of cyber flirting though.

 

Now Im in paranoia mode. Any chance these were just spam? I cannot ask him, as I was snooping, no excuses, I read when I should have just closed his mail.

 

Please help I need anykind of advice..................

 

It's spam. Sometimes they'll send a fresh reply to an ANCIENT email. I got a spam reply the other day from someone I emailed 3 or 4 years ago when I was still single.

 

Don't worry about it.

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It's spam. Sometimes they'll send a fresh reply to an ANCIENT email. I got a spam reply the other day from someone I emailed 3 or 4 years ago when I was still single.

 

Don't worry about it.

 

This is a possibility, but it's not definite. She won't know for sure unless she talks to him about it. I found something similar in my bf's inbox about a year ago and it was the real deal. It was a serious issue.

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This is a possibility, but it's not definite. She won't know for sure unless she talks to him about it. I found something similar in my bf's inbox about a year ago and it was the real deal. It was a serious issue.

 

I don't think I've ever in my life received a non-spam reply from one of those ads. Like I said, I emailed a few several years ago when I was single, and have had replies come back as recently as a week ago.

 

I think the likelihood is much higher that this is spam than cheating.

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