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Do I have to do anything for Valentines day for this chick?


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Glad you made a healthy decision.

indeed .

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actually i cancelled our dinner for tonite

 

hmmm... how curious! ;)

 

and how did that go over with her?

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and how did that go over with her?

i don't know as i haven't checked my messages yet

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i don't know as i haven't checked my messages yet

 

 

oh no! did you cancel over voicemail... or (gasp!) text? :laugh: I'm messing with ya! ;)

 

I'm glad you cancelled... if your not that into a girl you shouldn't be asking her out.. well, at all... but especially on Valentine's Day. It could send her the wrong message and if you aren't feeling it then it probably would have been pretty awkward... just MHO!

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i'm sure she's fine with it, she is "nice" girl

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i'm sure she's fine with it, she is "nice" girl

 

Oh. I see.

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i'm sure she's fine with it, she is "nice" girl

 

:eek:

oh no... alpha you need to find someone new! ... someone not so nice ;)

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:eek:

oh no... alpha you need to find someone new! ... someone not so nice ;)

well she also lives like 40 miles away and has a 14 yr old son

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well she also lives like 40 miles away and has a 14 yr old son

 

ok...?

 

oh, you mean that's why she was cool with you cancelling tonight...

 

or are those more reason why you're not that into her...?

 

or both? :laugh:

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ok...?

 

oh, you mean that's why she was cool with you cancelling tonight...

 

or are those more reason why you're not that into her...?

 

or both? :laugh:

she was cool with it and told me to call her later in the wk

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she was cool with it and told me to call her later in the wk

 

hmmm... I bet she's starting to sense you're not that into her.

 

stupid Valentines day... can really F up relationships! or in your case, potential relation... er, wait... :laugh:

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hmmm... I bet she's starting to sense you're not that into her.

probably .

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probably .

 

but you don't really care huh? that's too bad but I'm sure you got it going on in some ways and will find someone else soon... someone that you can be into.

Seriously, life is too short... why keep dating someone if you're not that into them?

 

BTW... Happy Valentines Day, alpha! ;)

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Seriously, life is too short... why keep dating someone if you're not that into them?

we've gone out on 5 dates i think and i'm still not sure...usually i know by now. this scenario happens once in a while. shes got a lot of good qualities. its sort of like i could take her or leave her. but at least i'm playing it cool as a cucumber

 

BTW... Happy Valentines Day, alpha! ;)

same to you

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we've gone out on 5 dates i think and i'm still not sure...usually i know by now. this scenario happens once in a while. shes got a lot of good qualities. its sort of like i could take her or leave her. but at least i'm playing it cool as a cucumber

 

 

same to you

 

 

yea, I hear ya... but being a girl myself, if I guy doesn't seem that into me by even the 3rd or 4th date I start to lose interest myself, even if I was really interested in the beginning. Like there's been times in the past that I got so frustrated and would end things with them. I guess what I'm saying it don't be surprised if that's what happens with her... but then you probably will want her again!

 

ah, the joys of dating... :laugh:

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we've gone out on 5 dates i think and i'm still not sure...usually i know by now. this scenario happens once in a while. shes got a lot of good qualities. its sort of like i could take her or leave her. but at least i'm playing it cool as a cucumber

 

 

same to you

 

 

You better watch it buddy. She is probably, even as I type this, hatching some diabolical plot ruin your dating career forever!!! What if she slips an "ugly guy" pill in your cocktail next time you're out with her? What then???!!!

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yea, I hear ya... but being a girl myself, if I guy doesn't seem that into me by even the 3rd or 4th date I start to lose interest myself, even if I was really interested in the beginning. Like there's been times in the past that I got so frustrated and would end things with them. I guess what I'm saying it don't be surprised if that's what happens with her... but then you probably will want her again!

we exchanged "happy v-day" txt messages. that should keep her happy for now. i guess i'll take her out to dinner next weekend but she had better give in to some sexual activity otherwise i'll be history soon

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we exchanged "happy v-day" txt messages. that should keep her happy for now. i guess i'll take her out to dinner next weekend but she had better give in to some sexual activity otherwise i'll be history soon

 

then what? you think that will make you like her more? hmm... I guess if the sex is super mind-blowing then..?

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then what? you think that will make you like her more? hmm... I guess if the sex is super mind-blowing then..?

then we'll see

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damn i called her...does that mean i like her more than i think??

 

i'm sooooo confused

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damn i called her...does that mean i like her more than i think??

 

i'm sooooo confused

 

 

you called her and said what?

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you called her and said what?

just the usual chit chat, the weather, our date last fri nite, the olympics...no lovey dovey stuff

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damn i called her...does that mean i like her more than i think??

 

i'm sooooo confused

 

:eek:........:laugh:...........Yes................

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damn i called her...does that mean i like her more than i think??

 

i'm sooooo confused

 

I think you do!

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If you have to ask, it's entirely possible! ;)

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