greatgirlfriend Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 Forget what I wrote earlier. I think you should buy her an engagement ring and get her pregnant.
Author alphamale Posted February 11, 2010 Author Posted February 11, 2010 Forget what I wrote earlier. I think you should buy her an engagement ring and get her pregnant.
Author alphamale Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 yea so i'm meeting this chick for dinner tonite. there will be many people there so its a group outing. there will be a band and dancing too. if she brings up v-day i'm just going to say that we are still dating and don't know each other well enough. if she pushes it i'll say we havent slept together yet so we're not officially a couple. there will be a lot of other single chicks there too so when they see me with dawn their interest in me will probably skyrocket
paddington bear Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 God how I hate bloody Valentine's Day.
Author alphamale Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 God how I hate bloody Valentine's Day. indeed paddington bear, indeed
paddington bear Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 You know, I met this guy off the internet, he wanted to meet me tomorrow, but I'd made other plans so I replied 'how about Sunday if you're free?' and sent it, thinking nothing of it. Now I'm guessing he's thinking that I purposely delayed meeting him, so that I'd have a date on Valentines, which wasn't the case - I try to erase the existence of V Day from my mind - and which means if I do see him on sunday I too am thinking, on date 2 am I supposed to make some romantic gesture to a guy I've just met? Or how am I supposed to respond to something he does.
Author alphamale Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 You know, I met this guy off the internet, he wanted to meet me tomorrow, but I'd made other plans so I replied 'how about Sunday if you're free?' and sent it, thinking nothing of it. just send another email/txt saying its a regular date and not a v-day date. you better clear it up cause he may show up with a box of godiva chocolates and a dozen roses
paddington bear Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 just send another email/txt saying its a regular date and not a v-day date. you better clear it up cause he may show up with a box of godiva chocolates and a dozen roses Oh dear God I hope not, 'cause he'll be getting nothing...in any case, he's the guy that licks rather than kisses, so I dunno. Better bring a box of tissues and a dehumidifier.
Author alphamale Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 ...in any case, he's the guy that licks rather than kisses, so I dunno. Better bring a box of tissues and a dehumidifier. one of those surgical masks may work better
paddington bear Posted February 12, 2010 Posted February 12, 2010 one of those surgical masks may work better If I painted a red heart on it, it might make it more 'Valentinesy' "I LOVE you...but don't try to kiss me"
sfsassy Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 Fact: She will be dissapointed if you dont do anything (however small) for V day. Question: Do you care? Exactly. Also, what if she does something for you? (even like a ecard?) Got a couple of cards myself, just in case my weird whatever we are does something. However, if he doesn't probably will just do a funny ecard, because he is at least cool as a friend. And yes, I will be disappointed if he does nothing, but no way am I telling him that as we are in a weird place. Now when my ex the first two years didn't aknowledge the torture for singles day, I did say something as we were together and I had gotten candy and a card.
Author alphamale Posted February 13, 2010 Author Posted February 13, 2010 i told her last nite i'll take her out to dinner sun nite but no cards or gifts
tkgirl Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 hey alpha.. I've been away for a while... so why are you dating her if your not that into her? and now you are taking her out for VD day? WTF are you thinking? do you want another stalker once you dump her? what about dating someone you are into?
Author alphamale Posted February 13, 2010 Author Posted February 13, 2010 hey alpha.. I've been away for a while... so why are you dating her if your not that into her? and now you are taking her out for VD day? WTF are you thinking? do you want another stalker once you dump her? what about dating someone you are into? no i like her but i just don't know how much yet. and she hasn't given up the poontang yet so i guess its a challenge
tkgirl Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 no i like her but i just don't know how much yet. and she hasn't given up the poontang yet so i guess its a challenge oh boy... well, IMO it doesn't sound like you are into her at all... why waste your time... and hers? just to get some? really?
Author alphamale Posted February 13, 2010 Author Posted February 13, 2010 oh boy... well, IMO it doesn't sound like you are into her at all... why waste your time... and hers? just to get some? really? no, i do like her but i don't know how much yet.
tkgirl Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 so i've been on around 5 dates with this dawn chick in the past month (yes, she was the "no kissy kissy" on the first date chick). i may see her wed nite and/or friday nite. we haven't had sex or anything yet. so i'm not required to do anything or see her on valentines day, no? i really don't want to, i think its way too early...shes probably just the flavour of the month anyways yea i'm really not that into her 2s...shes too "nice" for me i really don't know, boredom i suppose i'm just not that physically attracted to her Carhill, everything else is ok. i don't even know if i could have sex with her. i mean, shes not a bad looking woman but theres something about her nose that turns me off yea so i'm meeting this chick for dinner tonite. there will be many people there so its a group outing. there will be a band and dancing too. if she brings up v-day i'm just going to say that we are still dating and don't know each other well enough. if she pushes it i'll say we havent slept together yet so we're not officially a couple. there will be a lot of other single chicks there too so when they see me with dawn their interest in me will probably skyrocket and then you write... no, i do like her but i don't know how much yet. really??? read the bolded things again... THAT'S how much you like her. Do yourself and her a favor and cancel tomorrow!
skydiveaddict Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 i told her last nite i'll take her out to dinner sun nite but no cards or gifts OHH NOOO! You take a girl out for V-day then you gotta go the distance. Dinner, card flowers, the whole nine yards! Regardless of any potential reward
Author alphamale Posted February 13, 2010 Author Posted February 13, 2010 really??? read the bolded things again... THAT'S how much you like her. Do yourself and her a favor and cancel tomorrow! i'm sorta in-between with her, shes ok i guess OHH NOOO! You take a girl out for V-day then you gotta go the distance. Dinner, card flowers, the whole nine yards! no you don't
tkgirl Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 i'm sorta in-between with her, shes ok i guess no you don't ok well.. I wish her.. um, I mean you, luck!
deux ex machina Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 Maybe as you get to know her more, you'll get a clearer picture. Is she fun to talk to? Good luck on your date Sunday, Alpha.
pandagirl Posted February 13, 2010 Posted February 13, 2010 I'm predicting alpha is going to fall madly in love with this woman.
tkgirl Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 I'm predicting alpha is going to fall madly in love with this woman. but for whatever reason he'll dump her anyways... and then she'll start stalking him... and he'll post about it non-stop on here!
Author alphamale Posted February 14, 2010 Author Posted February 14, 2010 but for whatever reason he'll dump her anyways... and then she'll start stalking him... and he'll post about it non-stop on here! actually i cancelled our dinner for tonite
carhill Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 Alpha, I didn't 'do' anything special for the lady I'm seeing; we had a nice dinner and went to a movie Friday night and had a good time. To me, at our age anyway, anything 'valentine's' is for when we're in solid, mutually loving relationships. I'm far from there myself and it sounds like this lady wasn't that important to you anyway. Such things take time. Glad you made a healthy decision.
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