alphamale Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 so i've been on around 5 dates with this dawn chick in the past month (yes, she was the "no kissy kissy" on the first date chick). i may see her wed nite and/or friday nite. we haven't had sex or anything yet. so i'm not required to do anything or see her on valentines day, no? i really don't want to, i think its way too early...shes probably just the flavour of the month anyways
greatgirlfriend Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I don't think so. I am of the mindset that anything before 3 months isn't serious yet. If I started sating a guy and any of the gift giving holidays fall between the 3 months I expect nothing. However I am not the typical woman. After 3 months I expect something and it goes up the longer I am with someone.
OnlyJake Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I don't think you're required to do anything if you don't want to at this point...but this is coming from someone who, if single, doesn't date for several weeks prior to V-Day in order to avoid questions/issues such as the one you raised.
skydiveaddict Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 so i've been on around 5 dates with this dawn chick in the past month (yes, she was the "no kissy kissy" on the first date chick). i may see her wed nite and/or friday nite. we haven't had sex or anything yet. so i'm not required to do anything or see her on valentines day, no? i really don't want to, i think its way too early...shes probably just the flavour of the month anyways Oh Yes you do! you must buy her an expensive gift, take her out to for an enchanted evening of dinner and dancing. Also flowers and chocolate are an absolute must. Just where are your manners Alpha?
Yamaha Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 V day is for lovers, Alpha. I would pass since you haven't gotten any, yet.
Author alphamale Posted February 10, 2010 Author Posted February 10, 2010 Oh Yes you do! you must buy her an expensive gift, take her out to for an enchanted evening of dinner and dancing. Also flowers and chocolate are an absolute must. Just where are your manners Alpha? screw that baloney
2sunny Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 the words you use and the way it's written only means IF you do something for her - it will be without the intention designed for V-day... i'd skip seeing her all together if this is your approach.
Author alphamale Posted February 10, 2010 Author Posted February 10, 2010 the words you use and the way it's written only means IF you do something for her - it will be without the intention designed for V-day... i'd skip seeing her all together if this is your approach. yea i'm really not that into her 2s...shes too "nice" for me
2sunny Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 yea i'm really not that into her 2s...shes too "nice" for me i could tell by the way you wrote the thread. don't see her any more if it seems like it's an effort to do something nice for her... it's not supposed to be such a chore when you really care about someone.
norajane Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 If you plan to keep dating her, then it won't kill you to give her a rose when you see her Friday night. If you don't plan to keep dating her, then why do you have two dates scheduled with her for this week?
Author alphamale Posted February 10, 2010 Author Posted February 10, 2010 If you don't plan to keep dating her, then why do you have two dates scheduled with her for this week? i really don't know, boredom i suppose
bettedaviseyes Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 I hate valentines day for bad and past weird experiences, but I still do certain things for the fun of it. No giving candy grams are not only for kids haha Just give girly something nice, it doesn't have to be expensive nor emotional. Its just fun to get something on valentines day (for us girls, that is).
St. Nick Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 Hell no. You haven't done anything to consumate this "relationship" you have with her is anything serious. Why do anything? I don't wanna seem like a jerk here, but how can you call yerself alphamale with that kinda thinking?
Author alphamale Posted February 10, 2010 Author Posted February 10, 2010 ..., but how can you call yerself alphamale with that kinda thinking? i know, i have been acting sort of non-alphamale lately. i'm just tired mentally and emotionally
Hot Carl Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 I don't know about the woman, but I think I deserve a little something for Valentine's Day, Alpha.
paleblue Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 Oh Yes you do! you must buy her an expensive gift, take her out to for an enchanted evening of dinner and dancing. Also flowers and chocolate are an absolute must. Just where are your manners Alpha? ok, this is pretty funny stuff, an enchanted evening??? i say if you want to test drive it, than yes, if its just to occupy some time, than no.
carhill Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 Alpha, I and the lady I've been seeing for about a month will be catching a movie late in the week. We're still getting to know each other. Vday, to me, is for expressions of love and romance. If I don't feel it, I don't fake it. We've already talked about such stuff, since I'm not divorced yet. Slow and steady. IMO, if you're not (yet) feeling love and romance with this person at a level which impels you to focus on Vday, act accordingly on those emotions (or lack). That's honest. Such honesty may annoy her. Accept that. If there's something between you, there will be may Vdays in your future. If not, not. Hope dinner goes well
Author alphamale Posted February 10, 2010 Author Posted February 10, 2010 IMO, if you're not (yet) feeling love and romance with this person at a level which impels you to focus on Vday, act accordingly on those emotions (or lack). That's honest. Such honesty may annoy her. Accept that. If there's something between you, there will be may Vdays in your future. If not, not. Hope dinner goes well i'm just not that physically attracted to her Carhill, everything else is ok. i don't even know if i could have sex with her. i mean, shes not a bad looking woman but theres something about her nose that turns me off
engravefeelthevoid Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 well i personally think that you should go out with this girl on valentines day....am not asking you to take her to the best restaurant in town....just go out it wont hurt....better than doing nothing ! moreover the girl might get the impression that you dont want her and that it's a dead end...atleast give her the impression that you think of her as someone special...you might just get lucky on that day so... JUST GO OUT WITH HER ALPHA MALE !
Author alphamale Posted February 10, 2010 Author Posted February 10, 2010 JUST GO OUT WITH HER ALPHA MALE ! we haven't even had sex yet
engravefeelthevoid Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 Get her some nose hair trimmers HAHAHA I know someone who could use those ! well Alpha although you two havent had sex yet...this could be your doorway to having sex
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