Ilovehim Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I want your guys honest opinions. Me and my b/f live on two different states, however with a car its only an hour away, with traffic maybe 1 and a half -2 hours away. I'm very busy as I have to study alot and also I don't drive so he is the one who has been visiting me for the past year. He doesn't really "complain" but he does bring it up telling me I should learn how to drive so I can go see him sometimes. I try my best, My friends take me over there or my cousins and I'd be willing to take the traing there but he says that would be too much trouble for me. He says he hates the fact that we live far and he wants to move in together whether it's at his city or in another place but I'm not ready for all that and still have school. However we really care about each other so we're willing to keep going with our relationship and wait on each other. Now guys (and girls) would this bother you if you were my boyfriend? -Living in another state and always being the one to come see me (one hour drive) -Being with someone younger who still has a year or more to be done college. These two being the downfalls but if your bf/gf was a sweetheart and you guys never argued or had any problems. Any opinions about this are appreciated.
soulm8 Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 It's not too much trouble to catch the train - show him you want to see him.
Pizzaman81 Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I want your guys honest opinions. Me and my b/f live on two different states, however with a car its only an hour away, with traffic maybe 1 and a half -2 hours away. I'm very busy as I have to study alot and also I don't drive so he is the one who has been visiting me for the past year. He doesn't really "complain" but he does bring it up telling me I should learn how to drive so I can go see him sometimes. I try my best, My friends take me over there or my cousins and I'd be willing to take the traing there but he says that would be too much trouble for me. He says he hates the fact that we live far and he wants to move in together whether it's at his city or in another place but I'm not ready for all that and still have school. However we really care about each other so we're willing to keep going with our relationship and wait on each other. Now guys (and girls) would this bother you if you were my boyfriend? -Living in another state and always being the one to come see me (one hour drive) -Being with someone younger who still has a year or more to be done college. These two being the downfalls but if your bf/gf was a sweetheart and you guys never argued or had any problems. Any opinions about this are appreciated. An hour away is not too long. here's the thing I usually find with younger people. They may not know exactly what they want in life with a significant others yet. Being 1 hour away is not far though. You just have to think lots of things you two are doing is for long term. That one day you two will be closer. If there's a will, there's a way!
paleblue Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 you do not drive so you have a legitimate reason why you cant drive to see him. no it would not bother me. it would be really cool tho if you would surprise me taking the bus out to see me once in awhile but other than that, no, i would be fine with it. its only an hour away. that is not far at all. in fact i know people who drive farther than that everyday just to get to work. my drive to work is 45 mins. and no it would not bother me that you still have another year or so to finish up school, another legitimate reason. because after all, when you get out of school, all the possibilities are there.
Green Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I once dated a girl who didn't like to drive and I always had to visit her about an hour away and I didn't like it at all. I need a girl who can drive. But you should talk to him if it worries you, he may not even care.
DustySaltus Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I don't understand how you would consider it a deal breaker when the guy is coming to see you all the time. Hop on the train once and a while to let him know that it's a two way street. When there's a will, there's a way. If someone cares about you enough they will be willing to walk through a blizzard in a pair of boxers to see you.
paleblue Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 When there's a will, there's a way. If someone cares about you enough they will be willing to walk through a blizzard in a pair of boxers to see you. :laugh: SOOO TRUE!!!!!! you could tie a piano to his back and throw him in the river and he would still find a way.... lol (forgot the name of the movie i heard that from)
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