USMCHokie Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Hey, all it takes is a urethra. It's an equal-opportunity revenge tactic! Hahah, well that's awesome...I s'pose I'll put it in my revenge toolbox... Link to post Share on other sites
hopesndreams Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 What's happened to LoveShack? All I'm reading lately is how great people are doing now that their mondo-retarded ex's have broken up with them? I expected all of you to be curled up in a ball crying your eyes out while spilling wine all over your PJ's? No! What do I find? I find people going out, drinking, having a ball and realizing that their single again and loving every minute of it. I expected all of you to be playing in the medicine cabinet, but nearly everyone is out right now cruising the town listening to Motley Crew and honking at women to flash them. What is this? You're supposed to be all upset and destroyed but I am reading too many stories of single people rediscovering their passions while realizing that there are so many more people to love. What's going on, really? You guys need to start crying again! I'm sick of all these recovery stories of people getting dumped only to hook up with Miss Utah, marrying her, inheriting half her mother's estate and living the good life -- all because some trailer park ex that broke up with you to date a monkey. Man ... I was at such a low point earlier today that I questioned why I should continue on. Hope this helps. Am much better now though. It comes and goes. Link to post Share on other sites
JaneDoe35 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 I am feeling SO much better the last few weeks. I have been taking medication though - so it could be false!! I don't care about taking medication - if I had of kept on feeling like I was I think I would have gone crazy. I am laughing again, I am productive at work, I am happier with my daughter, I can see a great future ahead. Strange to feel this way after months of agony....... Link to post Share on other sites
bananaboat11 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Nothing is forgotten... Link to post Share on other sites
Hot Carl Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 I'm still here. Don't count me out yet. Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Nothing is forgotten... But the key is to use what we remember to become better people in the future. Link to post Share on other sites
bananaboat11 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 But the key is to use what we remember to become better people in the future. I've always been a better person than her... I was just so blind to see it. I hate myself for that. Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 I've always been a better person than her... I was just so blind to see it. I hate myself for that. Well look at it this way...if you hadn't experienced what you did, do you think you'd be able to protect yourself from being hurt like you did if it ever happened later on in life...? I think not... You're better off for it because you now know how to keep yourself from getting hurt like that again... Link to post Share on other sites
bananaboat11 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Well look at it this way...if you hadn't experienced what you did, do you think you'd be able to protect yourself from being hurt like you did if it ever happened later on in life...? I think not... You're better off for it because you now know how to keep yourself from getting hurt like that again... This relationship strikes me as one that doesn't happen often.... and I just got REALLY lucky to get a depressed, manipulative, hurting, low self esteem, hot party girl who pretended to be someone she isn't and used me as only a comfort from a past life she was rejected from... used me... and finally when she could stand on her own two legs again... she hung me out to dry. Go me! Link to post Share on other sites
Thebob Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Been trying to move on man, going out having fun, trying to find someone else. Currently I am unsuccessful but was recently pretty close to another relationship but it ended up flaking out as usual. Hope all of us older board members are havin a good time working on their new lives. Thebob Link to post Share on other sites
WiseOne1 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Life has changed me. I've been 100% ok since I went NC 4 months ago. It took me a year after the relationship ended, but I finally put my footdown, and took control..went NC and life has been much better, I feel like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. NC did indeed help me get over a 2nd EX, so yes I can state that NC works to help you get over someone. But you want to know what happened??? Life...im young...im 20...im rich...im good looking..I have many more chances at love, and I was to blind to see that. I would always tell others not to worry over relationships but I was a hyprocrite because I didn't take my own advice. I've also noticed that people on loveshack are more calm and not as depressed, I've been viewing loveshack for 5 years and I can say that people are nowhere near as depressed as 2005-2008. I do miss my EX though, but as a FRIEND, we were best friends for 5 years before we dated, I remember once we spent 38,000 minutes on the phone for a months timing and when I looked at my cell phone bill I was like WOW, lucky she was on my fav 5. I don't think she would be my friend, Im to the point that I can be LEGIT friends with her, I have no emotional feelings anymore, just platonic. She wanted to be friends while I wasn't over her, and now that im over her I doubt she would accept me back as a friend..but I would never know unless she called because I don't have the guts to call her after ignored her last 10 text messages and phone calls, "I was on strict NC" Anyways, the BAD ECONOMY in the U.S has taught me that always live life, and always enjoy it, even if you have to force it. Link to post Share on other sites
thepulse27 Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 Hey, this might be more like what you were looking for: but I am quite drunk, so you can just as easily discard this whole post. Today would have been our 4th anniversary. There is also a fairly good chance that we would have spent it in New York getting married, so she could come over here and start the life we had planned together. I didn't spend it doing anything wrong - crying or contacting her or the like. In fact I spent the last six hours having drinks and dinner with a beautiful kiwi girl, who wants to repeat this event as soon as possible. But I still walked home, thinking how in the world could my baby, the one who knew me best, have done this to me. I'm doing everything right. I can even see all the flaws she had and why I shouldn't want her anymore. So why do I think of her every second of every day? Sorry to drop the tone of this thread, but I've started enough new ones for a while. Link to post Share on other sites
just1guy Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 Newbie and depressed checking in. Link to post Share on other sites
Melrapuo Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 It's funny. The last time I had been on here was in April, and this site was completely filled with posts about how people were feeling down/depressed about their last relationships ending. And when I returned recently, I see all these posts on people living life / getting back together with exes / meeting new people. Maybe its a seasonal thing. Or a cultural thing. Who knows. /shrug Link to post Share on other sites
Odyssey Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 What's happened to LoveShack? All I'm reading lately is how great people are doing now that their mondo-retarded ex's have broken up with them?... ...What's going on, really? You guys need to start crying again! I'm sick of all these recovery stories...Man ...lol. DB be careful what you wish for. i know what you mean though. Been trying to move on man, going out having fun, trying to find someone else. Currently I am unsuccessful but was recently pretty close to another relationship but it ended up flaking out as usual...You'll come out on top one day. We can't remain in the gutter forever. It's funny. The last time I had been on here was in April, and this site was completely filled with posts about how people were feeling down/depressed about their last relationships ending. And when I returned recently, I see all these posts on people living life / getting back together with exes / meeting new people. Maybe its a seasonal thing...Maybe. I'm curious too. But i haven't been here long enough to notice. Maybe the LS forum junkies have a better perspective? Link to post Share on other sites
Thebob Posted February 12, 2010 Share Posted February 12, 2010 Thanks Odyssey I really hope so. Im sick of being single and never having a long term relationship. It sucks and I miss the caring and holding someones hand that my ex brought me for the 2 months that we were together. I hope i find someone great for me. Hope all is good with you man! Thebob Link to post Share on other sites
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