DenverBachelor Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 What's happened to LoveShack? All I'm reading lately is how great people are doing now that their mondo-retarded ex's have broken up with them? I expected all of you to be curled up in a ball crying your eyes out while spilling wine all over your PJ's? No! What do I find? I find people going out, drinking, having a ball and realizing that their single again and loving every minute of it. I expected all of you to be playing in the medicine cabinet, but nearly everyone is out right now cruising the town listening to Motley Crew and honking at women to flash them. What is this? You're supposed to be all upset and destroyed but I am reading too many stories of single people rediscovering their passions while realizing that there are so many more people to love. What's going on, really? You guys need to start crying again! I'm sick of all these recovery stories of people getting dumped only to hook up with Miss Utah, marrying her, inheriting half her mother's estate and living the good life -- all because some trailer park ex that broke up with you to date a monkey. Man ...
USMCHokie Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Hahahah, well played... I think we were spoiled by McGrupp...we haven't had someone of the same quality and caliber as him lately... I still see a steady influx of 1-posters with their lengthy tales of heartbreak and sadness...but I've noticed that the difference is the ones who are now "recovering" decide to stick around and babble incessantly about nothing (like myself...) instead of leaving LS and going about their business...so you'll see a higher percentage of "happy" people... But yea, I think we could all use another McGrupp...keep things interesting around here...
Chi NZ Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 *Puts hand up* Clinical and situational! If I can't laugh about it then whats the point yeah! (Obviously today's a good day
Chitowngirl Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Funny. I wouldn't say I'm depressed, but I am dwelling on it for sure. Could be because I hopped into a new relationship 6 weeks after the BIG breakup and was extremely disappointed with how my rebound boyfriend turned out. I thought he was incredible until the 4th month of dating when he started to change or maybe it was the real him showing through..now I'm even more sad and confused due to my dud of an ex boyfriend. I think it's more my dud-ex who has zapped my dating desires...
nobmagnet Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 i apologise for being one of the happy ones!! I feel I have been set free even though life as a single Mum of three is going to be tough I honestly can see I have been given a second chance at life. BUT.........I have always been a Glass half full person I wonder if that helps?? I wonder if we did a poll on people 3+ months on and asked on a scale of one to 10 how happy they are about their future and then ask them if in the past (before the relationship that had gone wrong) they were a half full or half empty person it would show a pattern?? Just a thought Nobby xx
thepulse27 Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 What's happened to LoveShack? All I'm reading lately is how great people are doing now that their mondo-retarded ex's have broken up with them? I expected all of you to be curled up in a ball crying your eyes out while spilling wine all over your PJ's? No! What do I find? I find people going out, drinking, having a ball and realizing that their single again and loving every minute of it. I expected all of you to be playing in the medicine cabinet, but nearly everyone is out right now cruising the town listening to Motley Crew and honking at women to flash them. What is this? You're supposed to be all upset and destroyed but I am reading too many stories of single people rediscovering their passions while realizing that there are so many more people to love. What's going on, really? You guys need to start crying again! I'm sick of all these recovery stories of people getting dumped only to hook up with Miss Utah, marrying her, inheriting half her mother's estate and living the good life -- all because some trailer park ex that broke up with you to date a monkey. Man ... I'd like to think I've found a balance DB - many's the night now I'll spend sipping cocktails in roof gardens, trading witty banter with busty models and lifting weights with my free hand, while at the same time eating cold dog food out of the can and sobbing uncontrollably on a phone that my ex hung up a long time ago. Ah the ups and downs...
HeavenOrHell Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I'm still here haha!! But turning the corner now I've stopped contact, I feel relieved, as well as sad, my anger is helping me move on too
single Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Well it's all about good and bad days is it not ? today i feel like throwing myself in a river* or something if that helps make you feel better knowing one person around here is having a bad day. *Not actually going to jump in a river.
jlr Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Aha. I'm not super happy or anything. I still have my dark moments. I'm better than before though, now that I cut ties with her. But it's still there. Still lingers. I've just gotten a little better at shutting it out. So, while I'm definitely better (thank god), and I wouldn't say I'm "cruising the town listening to Motley Crew and honking at women to flash me". Of course, I'd probably never do that even if I was super happy. Lol.
GrayClouds Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I guess going to Las Vegas with strippers and hookers must be an epizootic mood enhancer.
HeavenOrHell Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I don't have good days since he left, I have very bad days and not quite so bad days :lol: It would be good if happiness and enjoyment were part of my life again before too long. Well it's all about good and bad days is it not ? today i feel like throwing myself in a river* or something if that helps make you feel better knowing one person around here is having a bad day. *Not actually going to jump in a river.
GrayClouds Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I don't have good days since he left, I have very bad days and not quite so bad days :lol: It would be good if happiness and enjoyment were part of my life again before too long. They will come as soon as you decide you are ready for them. PS; Very happy for you for finally going NC.
Sadbutrelieved Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I guess I should have come in here yesterday while I was crying and feeling sorry for myself. Unfortunately after I peed in a box of stuff he has stored in my house, the tears went away.
single Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 at the peeing incident. I went into a bit of a beg mode today feel a right idiot I also envy every person on this board who can go no contact because i can't do it due to having a daughter with her. No regrets on my little daughter just her mother who is like Zelda from Terrahawks at the moment.
USMCHokie Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I guess I should have come in here yesterday while I was crying and feeling sorry for myself. Unfortunately after I peed in a box of stuff he has stored in my house, the tears went away. Hmmm...interesting...I didn't know girls did this...
Meaplus3 Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 (edited) What's going on, really? You guys need to start crying again! I'm sick of all these recovery stories of people getting dumped only to hook up with Miss Utah, marrying her, inheriting half her mother's estate and living the good life -- all because some trailer park ex that broke up with you to date a monkey. Man ... LOL. Well I think it's super fantastic to see lot's of uplifting stories.. and people moving forward in a positive manner. When I first arrived here, I'll admit it did seem much like the temple of doom. But, things change and people get happy. Yippie.:) Mea:) Edited February 9, 2010 by Meaplus3 wording
McGrupp Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 (edited) ::slowly backs out of thread:: Edited February 9, 2010 by McGrupp
Sadbutrelieved Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Hmmm...interesting...I didn't know girls did this... Never date an old punk rocker, or if you do, don't betray her
USMCHokie Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Never date an old punk rocker, or if you do, don't betray her Hmmm...I'll write that down...
sunrae Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I guess I should have come in here yesterday while I was crying and feeling sorry for myself. Unfortunately after I peed in a box of stuff he has stored in my house, the tears went away. . OMG, to funny!!! USMCHOKIE... Women are CrAzY!!! Watch out!
USMCHokie Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 . OMG, to funny!!! USMCHOKIE... Women are CrAzY!!! Watch out! Hahah, that's what I've been saying since Day 1!!!
ella23 Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I guess I should have come in here yesterday while I was crying and feeling sorry for myself. Unfortunately after I peed in a box of stuff he has stored in my house, the tears went away. :lmao: Sad-but-relieved, that's a great way to relieve yourself!
thepulse27 Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 I like this thread. I should be told I'm supposed to be miserable more often, it seems to bring a smile out of me. oh, and peeing in a box of his stuff is genius.
sedgwick Posted February 10, 2010 Posted February 10, 2010 Hmmm...interesting...I didn't know girls did this... Hey, all it takes is a urethra. It's an equal-opportunity revenge tactic! Never date an old punk rocker, or if you do, don't betray her Oh HELLS yeah!!!
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