Llamaking12 Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 So i really like this girl. Btw im 16. But newho there is this girl at school and she is beautiful.I cannot stop thinking about her. This has gone on for a couple of months and i really just cannot stop. Everyone thinks we should date. One time someone who didnt know her called her a whore and i got really angry at them and defended her. I need some tips on what to do i am really shy person and afraid about ruining our relationship. She always tells her friends how awesome i am and we hang out all the time. I drive her home all the time and she gets a pass from my studyhall teacher just to come in and talk with me the whole period. I am her "best friend" i am kinda new at this i wait to see if some one is right bEfore i ask them. What are the best things to say. I bought her choclates androses for vday i think i will do it then. Sorry for bad grammar and all im very tired and on my ipod. I cant sleep i. Sitting here thinking of her
counterman Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I am not sure what to do because I have never dated, and will never date, one of my closer girl friends. If I were to, I would suggest, if you want to do it on Valentine's day, you ask her if she wants to be your date. Personally, I think the flowers and chocolate is coming on a bit too strong but I do not know the details of your relationship and the nature of it. Before I suggest anything else, has there been any indication that she does like you more than a friend?
Author Llamaking12 Posted February 9, 2010 Author Posted February 9, 2010 Ya weve gone out just us to dinner and she always rests her head on me when she can. Ha i guess i must smell good =p
counterman Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Yeah, just ask her out on a regular date, even if it's on Valentine's day. Don't get all your hopes up because if it does not work out, you might fall really hard. You have this relationship with her already, this close friendship so you will be no stranger to each other. I suppose you could tell her how you feel about her, nothing overly dramatic, something like "I like you more then a friend", and ask her how she feels about it. If she just wants to remain friends, then move on. If she is interested, don't change much from how you interact with her now, maybe get a bit more intimate and flirtatious. Best of luck!
St. Nick Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Ah, young love. Word of advice: stop buying her things. Let her get a job.
Author Llamaking12 Posted February 9, 2010 Author Posted February 9, 2010 Well the way i was raised the man usually pays initially. But newho the roses are being sold at my school to benifit haiti and so thats partially y i am buying them
counterman Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Word of advice, don't buy so many roses for her. Even if it is for a charitable cause, florists jack up the prices for Valentines so that suckers can shower their girlfriends with roses because they think that their girlfriends will think that it's extremely "romantic".
meerkat stew Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Going to suggest a PUA technique that I've never used, but might be something to try here. OP, next time you are with her, and she puts her head on your shoulder or gets close, say "Woah, before you do that, there's a price!" then tap yourself on the cheek. If she kisses you on the cheek, then tap yourself on the lips and grin. If it works, resist the urge to tap yourself anywhere else as that would be taking it a bit too far at this stage. Regardless of whether you try the above admittedly corny trick, you get the idea of being light and funny with her in a flirty teasing way. Move towards kissing this girl ASAP as opposed to worrying about romantic gestures like flowers and candy. A good makeout session is what she seems to want from you most at this point.
counterman Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I like that idea. It's cheeky and fun. You can pull it off.
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