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Simple question and this is the place for great advice...

 

I have been NC with my Ex, since she left bout 3 weeks ago or so, packed her S**t up and left it on my porch for her to pick up, I want to continue to stay NC, but the black cloud follows me..

 

I found another box of her S**t downstairs, it has pictures of her kids and other things that belong to them, do I txt her to tell her to pick her stuff up (breaks NC), it will be on my porch or do I just drop it off, in which I really didn't want to do either.......cuz it looks like im catering to her, as I have the past 3 times she left me...

 

Not sure if she even knows its missing, but seeing as I packed everything for her, not saying she left this behind intentionally, my mistake, I didn't see it...

 

 

Thanks :D

 

LiL

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don't do anything

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don't do anything

 

 

Just let her contact me Alpha?

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Just let her contact me Alpha?

indeed LIL

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indeed LIL

 

 

Thanks Alpha, guess if she does I have to break NC then huh? lol

 

LiL

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Have a friend arrange to take it to her.

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I agree with GC on this one, have a friend take the stuff over to her. :)

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Have a friend arrange to take it to her.

 

 

Guess that works to.....was very determined not to cater to her, but I think if after awhile if she hasn't asked about it, I will take both advice, from You and Alpha...

 

Wait awhile, if nothing, then have a friend take it...

 

Arrrrrrrrrrrg sometimes the simple questions are the hardest... lol

 

LiL

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don't do anything

 

 

I disagree. having that stuff around will only continue to make you think of her. Take the stuff over to her house ane leave it in front of her door. Don't think of it as 'catering to her", just think of it as garbage that doesnt belong to you. Just make sure you do it when you know she won't be there.

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Have a friend arrange to take it to her.

 

Excellent idea also

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I disagree. having that stuff around will only continue to make you think of her. Take the stuff over to her house ane leave it in front of her door. Don't think of it as 'catering to her", just think of it as garbage that doesnt belong to you. Just make sure you do it when you know she won't be there.

 

 

Never looked at it as that, guess late at night maybe my best time to have someone do it...

 

Thank You

 

LiL

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Never looked at it as that, guess late at night maybe my best time to have someone do it...

 

Thank You

 

LiL

 

 

well if you're gonna have someone else do it, than it doesn't matter if they see her or not. Anytime would be ok then. I'm just saying if you're gonna take the stuff there yourself, it's best done when you know she won't be there. good luck my friend

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well if you're gonna have someone else do it, than it doesn't matter if they see her or not. Anytime would be ok then. I'm just saying if you're gonna take the stuff there yourself, it's best done when you know she won't be there. good luck my friend

 

 

Thanks Sky, already arranged from a friend who will do it after he works, thats Midnight :)

 

 

LiL

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Thanks Sky, already arranged from a friend who will do it after he works, thats Midnight :)

 

 

LiL

 

 

Nice! Problem solved! Good luck to ya!

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