pregnancy hormones affecting my views?

[kissyface77]

Hi I recently posted about my partners small embelsihments but really there is more going on in my relationship than that.

 

I am almost 9 weeks pregnant now and feel like i am rarely satisfied with him. Nothing seems to make me feel content and sure about where we are heading. I feel completely at his mercy or something. I am soooooooo tired.

 

Anyhow if u haven't read my other post. I am 37 and he is 26. The age gap isn't the issue though I am his first real relationship. he says it is difficult for him to talk to women but he always found it easy with me and he says he is crazy about me and we are planning to get married. He is easy to talk to and he is the only man i have ever been with who cares when i am upset and helps me to feel better through talking. He never raises his voice.

 

Well I think I should be happy yet I am still so sad all the time. I feel like he really doesn't want to spend time talking to me. he either has the tv on or he is busy doing things. He likes to work all the time and at one stage told me that he wanted to work 7 days a week. I am so scared we are going to get to a point where we don't do things together. I have told him this. One of his ideas for work was to go away for weeks at a time. I told him I couldnt accept that. If i was going to marry him I wanted a relationship where we would be together and do things together. I don't mean all the time. But just have some quality time together.

 

We Don't live together at the moment as he is doing some renovation work to his home. it is a very old farm house. I live in a rented home and he comes to stay with me regularly. I was looking forward to moving in there. But that's another thing. He doesn't seems to get anything done there. He tells me he wants to go home to do some work but when he calls me he is usually watching a movie with his mate and he hasn't done any of the things he said he was going to. Then he goes on about missing me and all the reasons he can't work on the house.

 

I just feel so insecure about our future. i dont know if it is because I am depressed and focusing only on the negative parts of our relationship. Or if I should be really worried. I have told him what I expect from a relationship and he agrees verbally to it but I cant see any actions. To me actions speak much louder than words. He says he loves me over and over but for me it is becoming like a recording where he just says it and then goes back to watching tv. He even waits for adds to talk to me sometimes and i have to constantly tell him ARRRGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!

 

So what do I do? I feel so physically tired and soooooo emotional I don't know what's what. Can anyone relate? Thanks so much for reading.

[stillafool]

Hi Kissyface. Maybe it is your hormones making you feel the way you do. You should talk to your doctor about the way you feel. I'm sorry I guess I do not understand what it is that you want your bf to do. Can you explain this a little more.