Curious-One Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 I get phone numbers easy ...have no problem starting a conversation with girls and getting phone numbers. The problem becomes once i get the phone number i never call. At first i am excited about the girl and say i will call her and than never end up doing it. This hasn't happened 1,2,3 times, it has happend over 30 times!!! My friends cant believe that i am always single with the amount of numbers i get. They get one number and end up atleast going on a few dates. I get a date every 10-20 numbers and thats usually because the girl gets my number and contacts me. Worst thing about it is that i know this is my fault but i am some what scared of the whole phone thing. I dont even like talking on the phone w friends...
virus5150 Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 Just pick up the phone, dial, and don't think about it - what's the worse that can happen? If you get her live - make the call short with the goal of setting a date - if you get her VM, just leave the basics and wait.
boogieboy Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 What is it you dont like about talking on the phone?
Awesome Username Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 Aww, I have the same problem. Talking while pacing helps some of the stress.
LovelyDaze Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Curious-One. You have to jump in with both feet when it comes to talking to a girl that you want to date. Try just calling one that really peaked your interest and make small talk. Say something like, "I enjoyed meeting you the other night and I was wanting to take you to dinner Saturday night." Ask her the things she likes to do for fun and her hobbies and interests outside of dating. You don't have to talk for an hour. Just keep it short and sweet until the date. Are you more relaxed with girls in person?
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