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This girl is just too hard to handle !!! or am I just over reacting ?

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engravefeelthevoid Established Member

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Hey guys okay first of all I just wanna say that I have experience with girls...but this new girl I met is just omg really hard to handle ! we were supposed to go out on a date 2 weeks ago but we fought a day earlier and we ddnt go...I told her i want us to be friends then our friends came along and said we should take time off....now valentine's is coming up ! and I asked her out again we're supposed to go out...okay here's the deal:

 

-She's really hot (9/10)

 

-She wants me to give her complete freedom (as in talk to all her guy friends even if alone or hang out with them alone)

 

-She misses her ex boy friend (they broke up 3 months ago)

 

-She has trust issues

 

-She says she likes me but she wants to take it slow...but she misses her boy friend..but she likes me...but she's scared etc..etc..etc...

 

 

AND ALL THAT IS KILLING ME !!! I mean I have the right to be jealous if she's hanging out with other guys right ? it just wrong !! and her ex boy friend wth ?!?! 3 months a girl doest get over her 1 year LOVE with a guy !!!

 

*Do you guys think I might be a reboud guy ?

*Is she the kind of girl who would be too demanding and hard to handle

*You think she's worth all the effort if she's not willing to make sacrifices ?

 

Please guys I need a third eye on this....

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Update: She was talking to me on msn about how she wants some horror books to read and she's like me to get her some chocolate ! is there a siginficance for chocolate in the whole equasion ?

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Um, this sounds like trouble to me.

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although I feel the same...something is driving me foreword...

 

guys what I need to start doing is get control over my feelings...I mean not get attatched quickly ! go out with the girl and have fun but just dont develop any feelings because she may hurt me

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Please guys I need a third eye on this....

The third eye to have your own idea of what you want from a women and how you wish to be treated. Don't be a reactor - be proactive. But in order to be the latter, you've gotta know what you want!! Most people in healthy relationships would not put up with most of this palarva whatsoever.

 

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I don't think your plan of trying to control your feelings is going to work. Making a clean break, however painful, and then letting a significant amount of time go by, is pretty failsafe.

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-She's really hot (9/10)

 

There's your problem :D

 

Be prepared to go down in flames, since you have no clue how to deal with attractive broads.

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Have you actually gone on a date with this woman? I'm confused exactly what your relationship with her is.

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She's toying with you, and odds are, there are several other guys just like you in the wings that she is toying with. The first guy who manages to sleep with her consistently will win this "special prize" of a woman, but my advice to you is to bow out of the competition and cultivate more options. Hotness is never worth the attitude you describe, asking you to buy her books and chocolate? are you serious?

 

Your chocolate comment/question brands you as a fairly obvious troll btw, but on the off chance I'm wrong, I don't want a violation so I have offered non troll advice above.

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Only Jake good question....WE agreed on going out on a date 2 weeks before the actual date...that was my problem...I hung out with her in university and spoke to her on the phone before we dated...I forgot that I shouldnt contact her before the date and between the dates....

 

We're supposed to go out on valentine's day and am not contacting her...I am busy anyways

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my best advice to you is not to get attached. most really good looking women are more of a pain than they are worth as far as i am concerned - especially one like you describe -

 

i,e, wants total freedom to talk to guys. hung up on her ex. trust issues, i mean come on, what more can you say? if you just want a little fun that is probably all she is good for.

 

there is no significance for chocolate. its doesnt mean anything except she is hungry.

 

dont get me wrong, nothing wrong with wanting to tag the hottie, but you can save yourself a lit of grief down the road by not letting yourself go too deep here.

 

you think shes worth all the effort if shes not willing to make sarifcies?? hell No! id tell her to buy her own dam chocolate and share some with you when she gets it. but i suspect you are already in this too deep.

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Only Jake good question....WE agreed on going out on a date 2 weeks before the actual date...that was my problem...I hung out with her in university and spoke to her on the phone before we dated...I forgot that I shouldnt contact her before the date and between the dates....

 

We're supposed to go out on valentine's day and am not contacting her...I am busy anyways

 

Um...OK, so youhaven't ever gone on an actual date with this woman? If that is correct then:

1. You have no right to be making any demands of her whatsoever, or to be jealous, or anything else. wtf dude?

 

2. She has no right to be making any demands/expectations of you either.

 

I'm also inclined to believe you are a troll.

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A little insight....the day we first fought (day b4 the date) I came back to her and told her I would like us to be friends not more...it is our friends who made me "GIVE HER" another chance....I also know her best friend who says that the girl likes me and that there are no other guys...remember I see her in university so Id know of any suspicious action.

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A little insight....the day we first fought (day b4 the date) I came back to her and told her I would like us to be friends not more...it is our friends who made me "GIVE HER" another chance....I also know her best friend who says that the girl likes me and that there are no other guys...remember I see her in university so Id know of any suspicious action.

 

How could you possibly have already had a fight with someone you're not even dating, and haven't even gone on ONE date with? :lmao:

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I hope you're under 22 years of age. If you're over 22 you should have learned this lesson by now.

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Your chocolate comment/question brands you as a fairly obvious troll btw, but on the off chance I'm wrong, I don't want a violation so I have offered non troll advice above.

 

Excuse my ignorance, but what is a troll?

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I'm 21....making mistakes and still not learning everything :lmao:

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Excuse my ignorance, but what is a troll?

 

Someone who posts on a forum just to get reactions, advertise or boost threadcount as opposed to a sincere motive. They serve an important function for sites that derive revenue from advertising, by stirring up the real posters and increasing post count. Higher post count = higher ad revenues. Trolling is probably going to be one of the next growth areas of the net

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Trolling is probably going to be one of the next growth areas of the net

 

Hey, professional trolling, great business idea ;)

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Someone who posts on a forum just to get reactions, advertise or boost threadcount as opposed to a sincere motive. They serve an important function for sites that derive revenue from advertising, by stirring up the real posters and increasing post count. Higher post count = higher ad revenues. Trolling is probably going to be one of the next growth areas of the net

 

Ah! Thank you. There definitely are some threads/posters who give that impression.

 

 

OP, considering your age, it's up to you whether you pursue this chick, but I don't think it'll end well for you... she sounds like a biotch.

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why do i get the same answer everywhere I Go ? :confused: even my friends who saw her tell me the same....well i guess if everyone says the same thing about something means it's true !

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Please... RUN.

 

My recent ex (4 months in BU and 4 months NC... she dumped me over facebook after 4.5 months)

 

..she was a 9/10...

 

..manipulative...

 

..wanted freedom with her friends... male/female

 

...didn't trust me with my female friends...

 

....always picked a stupid argument with me...

 

...I always let her have her way, but knew when to put my foot down!

 

.....RUN. TRUST ME.

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she's driving me angry as hell ! but how about this...go out on the date...make the f**k out....then fight her a day after and dump her ?! if she's gonna mess it up anyways i might as get out with something for once...maybe I should be an ******* for once...

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Why do you want to further involve yourself with someone who is causing you so much angst? Don't seek drama, ignore and avoid it.

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she's driving me angry as hell ! but how about this...go out on the date...make the f**k out....then fight her a day after and dump her ?! if she's gonna mess it up anyways i might as get out with something for once...maybe I should be an ******* for once...

 

Do yourself a favor... save the money.

 

She is NOT worth the trouble. You'll break it off... she'll want you back. you'll be stupid and take her back (I was with my ex)... blah blah blah...

 

run. meet a beautiful girl. not a hot girls. hot girls are trouble.

 

speaking from experience.

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