bluestraps Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 My ex girlfriend kissed me not a peck or on the cheek but a wet sloppy kiss. She does have a new man. Is it cheating? Could she still have feelings for me or is it a emotional reaction like out of habit or just not seeing me for awhile its been 4 months.
Rubberducky Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 Its not cheating IMO. Better get what you can, you only live once.
Bejita463 Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 Its not cheating IMO. Better get what you can, you only live once. I wonder if you'd say that if it was your girlfriend kissing other dudes.
New_Life08 Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 Yes, it's cheating. Did she do this in your relationship? Is that why she's an ex? This could very well mean nothing; she is so used to this behavior that it's an impulse... Or if she did it out of feelings for you, then it could be she's fickle. In either case she had no regard for her current boyfriend's feelings. In my opinion these are character flaws that are not likely to change. Seems like red flags to me.
BlueeyedJonesy Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 kissing is an intimate thing..so yes its cheating.
Dexter Morgan Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 My ex girlfriend kissed me not a peck or on the cheek but a wet sloppy kiss. She does have a new man. Is it cheating? yes............
samsungxoxo Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 It would be consider cheating, unless it's done on an open relationship. However, I heard of people who only considered having sex, oral sex or the others as cheating but not kissing. Many people have different definitions to it that there's no real absolute truth....
carhill Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 OP, generally, a woman does not kiss a man like that unless she genuinely has feelings for him or is attempting to achieve a goal, generally by manipulation. Your choice Being that you're an ex who has been sexually intimate with her, my opinion is, yes, she has cheating on her mind, assuming she and her current BF are not in an open relationship.
Silver_star Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 I wonder if you'd say that if it was your girlfriend kissing other dudes. exactly...if she was ur gf and she kissed another guy you would call that cheating no?
Author bluestraps Posted February 10, 2010 Author Posted February 10, 2010 During our meeting she had no way of knowing we would be talking in private so its not done for manipulation. Actions speak louder than words. Lets see, her new boyfriend is wating outside and she is supposed to love him yet she kisses me
Maggotface Posted February 11, 2010 Posted February 11, 2010 To me? Absolutely, kissing is something you do with your boyfriend/girlfriend or anyone you want if you're single. To you, it might not be, would it bother you if your girlfriend kissed someone else? If not thats cool it's all personal opinion but I'm sure her new boyfriend didnt appreciate it. Chances are if you have to ask it's cheating.
Author bluestraps Posted February 12, 2010 Author Posted February 12, 2010 To me it is cheating . Especialy since shes suposed to love someone else And its been 5 months and she kisses me. I didnt mind it . You dont do that if you are with some other guy .
Joe Normal Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 Yes kissing is cheating, unless it's like an air kiss luvvie-style.
Author bluestraps Posted February 16, 2010 Author Posted February 16, 2010 When kissing a person you still have feeling for It canot be anything but true feelings No way it was that kind of a kiss . It was a emotional situation that could have not ended any other way.
WiseOne1 Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 I just figuired something though....pay attention to everything that is going on here.. You state yourself that you "don't kiss anyone when you love someone else" right??? So do you think she really got with your friend with only talking?? You think he might not have kissed her or she might not have kissed him?? Your theory can work 2 ways, for you and against you, and in this case it works against you also, im simply saying is you've already answered the main question.... She most likely kissed your friend (her new bf) while yall were together, so yea she doesn't love you either.
Author bluestraps Posted April 6, 2010 Author Posted April 6, 2010 Been a while since I have been on here > So while I see your opinion, I dont think that ever happened. Heres why. My girlfriend was the one that was showing signs of having more of an interest than just friends. Its just very complicated.,Im still dealing with her. About a week ago she called me. She has depression which really effected our relationship , and is a daily issue for her. She was upset and knows I can calm her down. Thats it for now. Thanks for the post.
cooldudeinberlin Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 Kissing is certainly not something she does to the dog, mailman, her sister, her rabbi, whatever....right? kissing, in the manner you described, is a result of sexual attraction... sexual attraction is only felt with an emotional bond (whether new or based on past experienced).... of course its cheating... come on... Every girl Ive ever kissed, makes them immediately "warm up"... seriously... keep kissing and its a matter of time before the clothes come off
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