rose45 Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 I met a guy from online and we went to a bar..the conversation seemed to go well even though i was nervous..i found him funny and nice..he bought me a second drink and later said he isn't much of a drinker and if i would like to go somewhere maybe for coffee? i agreed and said that he can choose the place and we drove to his area which is only 10 minutes away. We seemed to like each other..he complimented me saying i am really pretty, i have nice eyes, why am i single? and i accepted the compliments by saying thank you..trying to show some confidence. I offered money when the check came to be polite and he said no its ok. We seemed to got along well and we laughed a decent amount..he asked if i was having a good time i said i was and he said he was too. He said if i wanted to go out again he would take me this to sushi place he knows He drove me home and he said we'll hang out again and i said ok..we began kissing and made out a little..nothing too big..if i felt like he was grabbing a little too much i tried to hold his hand. He wasn't pushy. He said i drove him crazy(i guess turning him on?) and he said you are going to have to go before i start ripping off clothes lol and only so much he can take..i almost felt like i should have been more flirty when he said i drive him crazy because i think he said it twice and i didn't say anything, just kept kissing..hopefully that wans't a turn off he said i can call him...which i thought was weird? good or bad? I decided to text him today saying you are probably watching the game..just wanted to say hi and thank you again and he wrote back a little while later thanks for agreat night with a smile face it got me wondering well was this a one night thing or is he just taking it slow? i can tell he definitely doesnt like girls rushing to be in a relationship so soon and doesnt want the clinginess so soon either. Since he said i can call him...should i call tuesday, wednesday? I almost feel in some ways he was too "cool" for me with certain things and i really like him and feel like he might have other options online. I really want to see him again. Was it bad to text him? i figured it was to show i liked him and to thank him and be polite not expecting to talk on the phone the next day or something. im just worried because sometimes guys can show interest and even make out with you and then you dont hear from them ever again..i hope he enjoyed the kissing.
confusedasever Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Doesn't dating suck? Anyway, I know how you feel, and the whole online thing will make you wonder whether or not he is "exploring" more options for a while. I'd wait until Thursday then text him and ask when he'd like to get together again. He probably does want to go slow, but get laid in the process.
Author rose45 Posted February 9, 2010 Author Posted February 9, 2010 I was thinking of giving him a call tomorrow(tuesday)..is that soon? I figure too soon is no good and waiting too long is no good either.
Author rose45 Posted February 9, 2010 Author Posted February 9, 2010 so he texted me today in the afternoon saying hi how are you with a smile face and i texted back about 10 minutes later saying im good how are you with a smile face and now no response..its been like 4 hours.....
Author rose45 Posted February 10, 2010 Author Posted February 10, 2010 when i told my friends what had been going on..she said i should just call him tonight because he expressed he doesnt really like texting on the date or having convos through a text and she said he texted u earlier and its obvious he wants some attention so i did call..he picked up and we spoke for a minute and he said he is actually with a friend and can he call me in a little bit and i said sure i doubt he is going to call b/c its already 10pm..do u think he did it purposely to blow me off? he asked how was work etc i hope i didnt screw things up...i don't think i did too much or atleast i hope not..i texted him sunday saying thank you, i let monday go by..he texts me in the afternoon and i responded and when i heard nothing for hours and hours i decided to just call and say hi
Author rose45 Posted February 10, 2010 Author Posted February 10, 2010 He still hasn't gotten back to me..i hope he didn't blow me off for good and just got busy with the snow etc
Chitowngirl Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Just remember: if he wants you, he'll find you. Stop texting him first and do not call him first. I met a guy from online and we went to a bar..the conversation seemed to go well even though i was nervous..i found him funny and nice..he bought me a second drink and later said he isn't much of a drinker and if i would like to go somewhere maybe for coffee? i agreed and said that he can choose the place and we drove to his area which is only 10 minutes away. We seemed to like each other..he complimented me saying i am really pretty, i have nice eyes, why am i single? and i accepted the compliments by saying thank you..trying to show some confidence. I offered money when the check came to be polite and he said no its ok. We seemed to got along well and we laughed a decent amount..he asked if i was having a good time i said i was and he said he was too. He said if i wanted to go out again he would take me this to sushi place he knows He drove me home and he said we'll hang out again and i said ok..we began kissing and made out a little..nothing too big..if i felt like he was grabbing a little too much i tried to hold his hand. He wasn't pushy. He said i drove him crazy(i guess turning him on?) and he said you are going to have to go before i start ripping off clothes lol and only so much he can take..i almost felt like i should have been more flirty when he said i drive him crazy because i think he said it twice and i didn't say anything, just kept kissing..hopefully that wans't a turn off he said i can call him...which i thought was weird? good or bad? I decided to text him today saying you are probably watching the game..just wanted to say hi and thank you again and he wrote back a little while later thanks for agreat night with a smile face it got me wondering well was this a one night thing or is he just taking it slow? i can tell he definitely doesnt like girls rushing to be in a relationship so soon and doesnt want the clinginess so soon either. Since he said i can call him...should i call tuesday, wednesday? I almost feel in some ways he was too "cool" for me with certain things and i really like him and feel like he might have other options online. I really want to see him again. Was it bad to text him? i figured it was to show i liked him and to thank him and be polite not expecting to talk on the phone the next day or something. im just worried because sometimes guys can show interest and even make out with you and then you dont hear from them ever again..i hope he enjoyed the kissing.
soup Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Sounds like he was just hoping for some booty to be honest. Don't get worked up about him. If he calls maybe it'll be fun to see him. I don't mean to be negative, I don't think he sounds like a bad guy, but I don't see the point in getting bent out of shape over him after one date.
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