so_mo34 Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 so my heart is currently breaking over a guy who will never love me and this just tops it right off. i met this guy in my class about a year ago and we would flirt all the time. then he told me how he only wanted a woman's touch and didn't want a relationship. a month later he gets a girlfriend. we don't talk for quite a few months until he breaks up with his gf and starts to talk to me again. he tutored me once for a class i needed help in so i asked him if he could help me out. he pretty much flirted with me the entire time and was very suggestive. and mentioned that i should be his valentine's date. i used to like him and i agreed to go out with him. but then i asked him to tutor me again and he said that he couldn't this weekend. he never texts me first or anything. im thinking he might be playing games or just doesn't actually like me. should i forget about him and just wait for him to text me? if he really wanted me to be his valentines date..he would chase me right? he just doesn't contact me. i've been the one texting him first the past couple weeks.
USMCHokie Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 If a guy truly likes you, he will make it happen. He's talking to you after breaking up with his girlfriend because he doesn't have anyone else to talk to. He's just filling a void that was left from his ex. You are second fiddle to whatever else will eventually come along. I would suggest that you completely forget about him and focus your attention on someone who actually wants to be with you and just you... He sounds like a flaky douche...
counterman Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 If a guy truly likes you, he will make it happen. He's talking to you after breaking up with his girlfriend because he doesn't have anyone else to talk to. He's just filling a void that was left from his ex. You are second fiddle to whatever else will eventually come along. I would suggest that you completely forget about him and focus your attention on someone who actually wants to be with you and just you... He sounds like a flaky douche... Yes, I agree with USMChokie. If he really wants you, he will contact you and he will ask you out for Valentine's day. She starts to talk to you after his break-up because he knows he can. There probably isn't anyone else, as USM said. You knows he has you there to talk to and it's quite of expected now that you would initiate the texting and calls because you have been the last couple of weeks. Forget about him.
kiss_andmakeup Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 Is this the same guy as in your other thread? If so, my answer there stands. If not, my answer is to stop getting involved with these guys who tell you right off the bat that they are only interested in sex. They express no emotionally positive, friendly, or caring remarks towards you beyond wanting to get in your pants. And, considering your last thread, you seemingly become pretty emotionally attached once sex is involved. Which is fine. But this means you have to be more selective about the people you let into your life...and these losers who tell you from the moment you meet them "I only want a woman's touch" are NOT cutting it!
USMCHokie Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 Is this the same guy as in your other thread? If so, my answer there stands. If not, my answer is to stop getting involved with these guys who tell you right off the bat that they are only interested in sex. They express no emotionally positive, friendly, or caring remarks towards you beyond wanting to get in your pants. And, considering your last thread, you seemingly become pretty emotionally attached once sex is involved. Which is fine. But this means you have to be more selective about the people you let into your life...and these losers who tell you from the moment you meet them "I only want a woman's touch" are NOT cutting it! And not to mention, that is one hell of a lame ass line...wow...I didn't know guys actually said that kind of stuff... But +1 on the post.
Satisfaction Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 Yep, he is messing you around. Make some plans for Valentines day. If all your friends are in couples try a singles group. Do something fun and memorable. He will probably linger in your mind but once you meet someone who treats you properly you will completely forget him and if by chance you see him again, you would wonder what you ever saw in him.
Author so_mo34 Posted February 8, 2010 Author Posted February 8, 2010 this is a different guy way before i met the other one. i used to have a crush on him, but not really anymore. i just got a bit excited that he was giving me attention again, but just got my hopes up for no reason. this sucks it seems like no one wants me.
boogieboy Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 This guy only wants you for sex. He isnt playing games, he just isnt into you. Forget about him. When someone tells you they dont want a relationship, it means they dont want a relationship with you. When someone comes along that they really want, they are instantly in a relationship. You saw this already with this guy. He isnt going to come around for you, thats why he doesnt initiate contact. He doesnt like you as a person, he just sees you as a booty call. It wont change just because its months later. Maybe youre not his type, whatever the reason, he doesnt see you as serious girlfriend material.
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