First Date..is he interested?

[rose45]

I met a guy from online and we went to a bar..the conversation seemed to go well even though i was nervous..i found him funny and nice..he bought me a second drink and later said he isn't much of a drinker and if i would like to go somewhere maybe for coffee? i agreed and said that he can choose the place and we drove to his area which is only 10 minutes away.

 

We seemed to like each other..he complimented me saying i am really pretty, i have nice eyes, why am i single? and i accepted the compliments by saying thank you..trying to show some confidence. I offered money when the check came to be polite and he said no its ok. We seemed to got along well and we laughed a decent amount..he asked if i was having a good time i said i was and he said he was too. He said if i wanted to go out again he would take me this to sushi place he knows

 

He drove me home and he said we'll hang out again and i said ok..we began kissing and made out a little..nothing too big..if i felt like he was grabbing a little too much i tried to hold his hand. He wasn't pushy. He said i drove him crazy(i guess turning him on?) and he said you are going to have to go before i start ripping off clothes lol and only so much he can take..i almost felt like i should have been more flirty when he said i drive him crazy because i think he said it twice and i didn't say anything, just kept kissing..hopefully that wans't a turn off

 

he said i can call him...which i thought was weird? good or bad? I decided to text him today saying you are probably watching the game..just wanted to say hi and thank you again and he wrote back a little while later thanks for agreat night with a smile face

 

it got me wondering well was this a one night thing or is he just taking it slow? i can tell he definitely doesnt like girls rushing to be in a relationship so soon and doesnt want the clinginess so soon either.

 

Since he said i can call him...should i call tuesday, wednesday? I almost feel in some ways he was too "cool" for me with certain things and i really like him and feel like he might have other options online. I really want to see him again.

 

Was it bad to text him? i figured it was to show i liked him and to thank him and be polite not expecting to talk on the phone the next day or something.

 

im just worried because sometimes guys can show interest and even make out with you and then you dont hear from them ever again..i hope he enjoyed the kissing.

Edited February 8, 2010 by rose45

[soulm8]

You will only KNOW if you let HIM contact you now. He knows you're interested... go with the flow now and try to stop thinking about everything!

[Barky]

Sounds like a standard first date to me. Nothing wrong there.