jen_r Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 So, i posted my sob story a few days ago. Ever since then I have still been trying to get him back. To which his reply is always the same "no, you need to move on, its over, you need to accept this." Well, we talked today and whatever, and I must have gotten to him because I just started getting these texts... (word for word) "ur seriously ****ing with me" "I wanna tell u to come out for the night but I dont believe u" "I want to be able to tell you to come out here, stay the night. just tonight. But I dont believe you. But I also dont know if its just cuz i wanna make love to you" "I am so conflicted. I really dont want anyone else but you drive me nuts. I shouldnt be texting you" What would you make of those texts???
Art_Critic Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 You are putting yourself in a position to be used only for sex. Your pleading is leaving him no choice but to consider another option and sex is that option.. He has told you it is over.. do you not believe his own words ?
Author jen_r Posted February 8, 2010 Author Posted February 8, 2010 No actually. Im in serious denial that it is over. I'm not meeting up with him tonight, as much as I so badly want to.
Art_Critic Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 I'm not meeting up with him tonight, Good for you ... Give yourself some time to land back on your feet. Breakups suck but the one thing that is a guaranteed reality is that you will move on and you will stop hurting and you will find the next guy who will trip your trigger..
stillafool Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 Girl, find your self respect. Let him go if he doesn't want you. You are forcing him to have sex with you and he knows if isn't going to change his mind about a relationship. If you sleep with him you are going to feel cheap and used. Let him go now and stop calling. Seriously, you will thank me later for telling you this.
Author jen_r Posted February 8, 2010 Author Posted February 8, 2010 but the one thing that is a guaranteed reality is that you will move on and you will stop hurting and you will find the next guy who will trip your trigger.. I know that that is true. But, I don't see myself letting go. Which will never let me move on. I keep thinking, if & when I start to date other ppl - I will always compare them to him. I had the love of my life...and I lost him. I know ppl break up all the time, I just don't think Im strong enough to handle this.
name witheld Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 Thats perfectly normal. You will be ready when you are ready and not a moment sooner.
name witheld Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 wow, just saw your pic. You are cute, sure you will be feeling better very soon!
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