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Its been about 3 weeks since my ex left , (4th time) since then I have txt her once, going back 2 weeks ago, but never did after that, she had replied to my txt, and I thought forget it, going NC.

 

I received a txt from her today asking me a question, but it was the question she asked, I thought was bizzarre, it was a question that all you had to do was open a phone book and make a call, I won't analyze this, just thought why ask me when you could just as easily ask your friends that work at the place you were asking the question about, or call the place.....

 

I never replied, other then the fact I didn't recognize the number, all I asked was "who is this?" she txtd back and said it was her...I left it at that...never responded.

 

I just feel that maybe this was her way of saying hey Im just letting you know im still around or to see if I would answer at her beckon call, as I have always done, she left me 4 times, I took her back 3..

 

Sorry to bable, just wanted outside opinions :)

 

LiL

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ok imsorry for sounding harsh. but i will just get straight to the point.

 

N.C must continue. not to get back together. you really do need tolet go. you are both stringing each other on! if you have broken up so many times why keep gettin back together?

if you broke a vase how many times would you glue the pieces before you realised it was broke? and even if you continued eventually it would just notbe possible.

 

you just need to move on. both of you can find new partners that you will never break up with!

 

sorry for not saying what you want to hear. but i think its what you need to hear that counts!

 

good luck!

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Hey Sean1, no harshness taken, I am actually seeing someone, so NC is even easier for me this time around, but as for going back several times, I left out something important, there were 2 kids involved...

 

as for NC, I don't see it being a problem this time.... :D

 

LiL

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I never replied, other then the fact I didn't recognize the number, all I asked was "who is this?" she txtd back and said it was her...I left it at that...never responded.

 

Smooth :)

 

It's obviously an excuse to contact you, especially if she's got a history of bouncing in and out of the relationship. But it's really irritating behaviour, and I sympathise! I think it's the equivalent of poking you in the ribs to let you know they're still there.

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I left out something important, there were 2 kids involved...thats why I went back.....but learned finally I may miss them, but there not mine, so I won't torture myself with that anymore.....

 

just looking for an outsiders take on things. :D

 

Thanks All.....

 

LiL

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