kombucha22 Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 Ok i'm kind of have a feeling of being out of control. My ex and I broke up a month ago(dec 26th) b/c he was being distant towards me. He also cheated on me while in the relationship several times. We were together for a little over a year. But gave him SEVERAL tries and stayed in the relationship. I'm 26 he is 27. After New years he started texting me again and we sort of became friends. He was helping me train for a triatholon we ran 6 miles every weekend the month we were broken up (january). This past friday he wanted to take me out to dinner(i thought new beginnings b/c we were getting along so well lately). We went out to dinner and had a GREAT time and unfortunatly we ended up sleeping together after dinner. Oops! Next day I didn't hear from him while the whole previous week b4 this dinner he was texting me saying- i miss you, i love you, i can't wait to see u etc. So, I got pissed, since i didn't hear from him after having sex with him the night b4, and went off on him BIG TIME telling him to f*** off, lose my # etc. He replied back I'm not losing your #. Than, he stopped talking to me. This was all through text messaging, by the way. I felt guilty after telling him off and I apologized the next day. He texted me a few times afterward like we were friends again, talking about running. This past thursday night he texted me "good night" but i didn't respond bc i was in bed sleeping. The next day around 4pm I texted him "how is your day" and heard nothing. Texted him again "?". and Nothing. So than i texted him "I guess ur not talking to me anymore. That's OK. we haven't been getting along lately and need the space anyway. byes. Have a good wkend, be safe." i said be safe cause it's snowing. Do you think what i said was OK? and the right thing? I did'nt want to flip out so i took control and wrote something kind of nice. Opinions please? i don't like feeling like this and not hearing from him I feel like our break up just happened all over again! He usually ALWAYS texts me back. Why do i feel like this and want someone who is totally crappy for me?!
LostInLimbo Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 After break up sex is never any good, or nothing good comes from it usually, as for the way you handle it, I think that was fine, to the point, ball in his court, and best of all, polite with no harshness behind it. Best Of luck LiL
Author kombucha22 Posted February 9, 2010 Author Posted February 9, 2010 So after 4 days my ex contacted me he texted me saying: Hey, did u have a good weekend? I didn't want to bug u after that text you sent me. I just wanted to say hi though! I don't like not having you in my life No does this make any sense from my last post?! I told you all what was said before I got this text today. He is sooo playing me as usual isn't he? opinions would be appreciated! to me this text makes noooo sense as to why he didn't text me back when I asked him 4 days ago how he was? And as i'm typing this he text me saying "hey what are you doin"
sean1 Posted February 9, 2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Hey, did u have a good weekend? I didn't want to bug u after that text you sent me. I just wanted to say hi though! I don't like not having you in my life this is practically saying " hey just checking up on you to see if your moving on. gonna keepdoing this so you want to text me back and when you do i will feel better about myself" hes throwing the breadcrumbs out. you need to maintain strict N/C dont reply to these. the old saying on here goes. unless he is at your door kicking and screaming for you to take him back and that it was a massive mistake...then you need to move on. dont fall for these little feeder texts. hes just seeing if your doing better than him. so do so! get out have fun! live life! itl p*ss him ryt off. and itl make you feel better and you can heal yourself and prepare for that brand new man that is just dying to find you!
Author kombucha22 Posted February 9, 2010 Author Posted February 9, 2010 haha thanks sean! no worries, def not getting back together with him! thanks for reminding me how much of a jerk he is lol.
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