so_mo34 Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 i'm in a very bad, painful situation right now. i hooked up with this guy i work with in august who is 35, i'm 22. i never had feelings for him before, but i started having feelings for him after i slept with him and really enjoyed his company. i hooked up with him a few more times, we would also watch movies at his place and have food. he always let me sleep over. he invited me out once to a club with his friends. the texts he sent me though started to just get to the point that he just wanted to hook up. i went to his place in november and he acted different. he would grab my hand and hold it for a few seconds. during sex he was stroking my face a lot. (he never did that before and it was the only time he did). at work the next day i noticed he was staring at me more and was acting distant/weird. i thought maybe he liked me. then he went away on vacation for 3 weeks. then he just stopped texting me and asking to see me, but would still talk at work. anyways in the middle of january he starts texting me again and we've been seeing each other again. he told this girl at work that he is seeing a girl who is 22.(me) but the texts he sends me are always straight up asking to have sex. the more i see him the more i have feelings for him. i know i should stop this, but i can't find the strength to stop because im so in love with him. he gives me mixed signals all the time too. like last night in bed he kept looking over at me and moved closer to me. but doesn't seem to want to cuddle. he also kisses me goodbye in the morning. i get so excited when he texts me and upset when he doesn't. he's like a drug. im so happy when im with him, but then when i leave his place im all depressed. i just don't know what to do. it's so painful being in this situation but then i can't imagine not having him in my life because i like him so much. btw at work he is known as a player and had only 1 or 2 relationships in his life. so do u think he is just using me? and i need advice please.
stevejohnson1976 Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 do I THINK he is using you? uhhh..yeah...100000% get over this douchebag
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