NewOld Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 Hey everyone, I'm new to this forum; I just registered now. I'm 19 years old, I go to college, I work as a cashier superviser at a grocery store, and I have one problem. I talk to girls, I can flirt, I can tell by their body signs that they're intersted, however, I find it difficult trying to hang out with a girl one on one. It seems like a simple question, but how do I do this? At times it seems like they're "too busy"; do I make plans a couple days in advance or do I ask them one day "hey, what are you doing today"? At my grocery store, the cashiers whom I supervise are these young beautiful flirty girls who LOVE attention. They flirt with every guy there! How would I make myself stand out amongst these girls, to get friends-with-benifits with them, or more? Thanks!
zebracolors Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 Well first off do you mean the cashiers who work under your supervision? Initially I would presume(hope) you didn't mean those girls specifically. I'm sure you're already aware that's potential trouble waiting to happen. (?) However if you mean in general social situations like away from work then really just work up courage and confidence and you really can only do this by diving right in. Alot of women find that incredibly attractive. Humor is good too, as long as you don't force it. Of course I realize when we're talking about women you've never met, it can be hard to know where the line is, and maybe are not familiar with their reactions, like you are to the women you know at work.
Disillusioned Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 It sounds like if the one-on-one thing intimidates you, maybe the best approach is to go on a few double or triple dates until you feel comfortable.
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