Pixma Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 My friend disrespected me and really hurt my feelings. This happened three weeks ago, and I've tried to just let it go, but it keeps bothering me. He completely blew me off with something I had asked him about a year ago, and reminded him again closer to the date. He told me when to get in contact with him again, and I did...only to find out that there was no more room for me because he let in a bunch of other people before me. Of course, he never told me any of this himself; I found out from one of his other friends. I feel very disrespected and like I was treated very unfairly. I tried letting it go, but this one just won't go away. I was looking forward to this and what makes me even more upset is that rather than just tell me what happened himself, I had to find out from someone whom I didn't even know. I want to say something to him, but I don't know if there's even any point. All I want is an apology.
Ronni_W Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 All I want is an apology. Then give him the opportunity to offer you one. Ask him what happened. And AFTER he tells you his side of it, you'll be able to assess whether or not he seems to be feeling remorseful, as well as you can then tell him that you felt disappointed and hurt. Possibly he was/is feeling very guilty about the situation, and that's why he couldn't and hasn't been able to find the courage to speak with you directly. Give him the benefit of the doubt until you find out that it is undeserved. Is my suggestion.
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