sean1 Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 well last nyt i was out and although me and my ex have still been talking over the past 3 weeks since we broke up ive avoided talking about the relationship. well after a few drinks and a text she sent me as she was going out to. she said "hope your having a good nyt my friend says she wishes you was here". now that was enough to get me texting her. but after just 2 texts i ended up again saying how much i loved her and wanted 2 try and make things work. she replied saying "why would u say these fings u wer doin wel. fort u was over it". i realy do love this girl...so so much. i do want her to take me back! but i think anything im doing will just push her away!!!!! arghhhhhhh
dietpepsi Posted February 8, 2010 Posted February 8, 2010 but i think anything im doing will just push her away!!!!! arghhhhhhh Everything that you don't do will be your only chance at a second chance. You've got to lay off and work on yourself, this is obviously too fresh for her judging by her response. You're going to have to cut the line mate, by you hanging around her, it's only helping her get over the break up, and making it harder for you to get over it. I bet if you keep up the friendly relationship you have now, as soon as she finds someone to date/rebound etc, you won't hear from her. You have to make this step into the unknown for you and her, first before that happens. Take this time to evaluate yourself, your relationship. Hit the gym, go out, have fun. Turn into a better man. This is imperative. Make her wonder where you are, and where her puppy dog went, she needs to know that you WONT be there for her, and that she gave up this right by dumping you. I got no where with the puppy dog act. As soon as i cut off all communication, worked on myself, got my **** together and became a better man than before, mentally and physically I feel better and have the confidence to control my emotions. I still have my bad days, don't get me wrong, there are many threads on this forum that prove that. I'm not saying that I am any step closer to reconciliation that i know of, because that's not my mindset, but my ex now responds very positive to the new me. And I feel better about me, thats the most important step, and until that happens for you, she will truly never feel it either.
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