kts Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 (edited) I am new to this but I feel like I have to talk about what is happening to me. I was born in the US but I lived in Brazil since I was 2 years old. I came back to the US in February 2007. I met this woman through my mom's best friend. She is 10 years older than me (I am 30 she is 40). We conected right way and started a relashionship in march 2007. We decided to move to an apartemnt together in march 2009. She cheated on me about 5 times(that I know of) since we were together. Kiss only 4 times and the second one was all the way. She always had an excuse and I kind of accepted because I liked her and honestly because I don't know anybody in here and I would be completely alone if I was not with her. In September 2009 I decided to break up with her for all the cheating and because she drinks too much and always uses that as an excuse to everything that happened. The problem was that we had the lease. So I am stuck with her. We talked about it and we were ok with not dating or starting any kind of relashionship until we moved to a different place. Since then she spent 2 nights out (didn't come home until 6am or later) and she have been talking to SEVERAL guys on facebook and over the phone. I love her and I don't know how my life will be without her. She is already going out with other guys and we still live together. I know... I know... You guys think I am weak and that I should move on. That is the problem. I am A GREAT CATCH! And I know that because people around me say that all the time. Even people I don't know. I am good looking, smart, hard working... People that know me say that I could have any girl that I wanted but I am too nice. And that is why my ex-girlfriend doesn't respect me. Why is so hard to find a girl that will love and respect and complete you? I always do my part... and I always end up alone and hurt. I am sorry... I am a little depressed right now... But it is my life. Edited February 7, 2010 by kts
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