bluestraps Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 I had broken up with my ex girlfriend 5 months ago. She does have a new boyfriend which seems like shes not to sure of. Recently we started talking again . We were talking on the phone the last few days. Everything was going quite well. Then we started bringing up old problems and we started fighting and I know I was the one who started it , and she ended up mad at me and basicaly said to me, Its really over. So I think she was really feeling around to see if we could have a future sometime maybe later. So Either I appologize now to make things at least half way better, and it would make me feel better. Or I maybe should wait a few more days to let any hostility she has die down. I would really hate to have wasted all this time leting the breakup subside , and now to put it back who knows how far. I really want us to get to the point where something could start back up between us So do I wait.... or do I do it now . Opinions or past experence please. Thanks
McGrupp Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 i had something similar happen. called the x, asked for a 2nd chance, kinda lost myself and she said something very similar. i called some days later and apologized. well nothing really happend after that. so i mean if it will make you feel better, go for it. but if you dont, then i think you lose nothing. hurts too cause you think you were close and are now regretting doing what you did, but i mean she was just breadcrumbing imo.
LostInLimbo Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 I had broken up with my ex girlfriend 5 months ago. She does have a new boyfriend which seems like shes not to sure of. Recently we started talking again . We were talking on the phone the last few days. Everything was going quite well. Then we started bringing up old problems and we started fighting and I know I was the one who started it , and she ended up mad at me and basicaly said to me, Its really over. So I think she was really feeling around to see if we could have a future sometime maybe later. So Either I appologize now to make things at least half way better, and it would make me feel better. Or I maybe should wait a few more days to let any hostility she has die down. I would really hate to have wasted all this time leting the breakup subside , and now to put it back who knows how far. I really want us to get to the point where something could start back up between us So do I wait.... or do I do it now . Opinions or past experence please. Thanks Hey Bluestraps, it actually sounds like you both need more time away for now, then think about apologies or talking things out, as this to me sounds like a disaster waiting to happen, which could only be a nightmare waiting to happen, which may push you both further apart.. Best Of Luck.... LiL
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