Should i move out?

[Cherryvampira]

Im in love with someone and they broke up with me cause i was there rebound and now is dating a girl. I promised I would stay and help this someone cause they might be in a wheel chair soon. This someone also loves someone else but says their only friends. Everytime they talk on the phone they say i love you. I do live with this person and I have no job and am flat broke. This someone always asks me to do things like get her meds and make her lunch and then instead of thank you I get told about something i did wrong. Everytime i try to move on and get a relationship going i feel as if this someone is mad at me. What do you think?

[LostInLimbo]

Im in love with someone and they broke up with me cause i was there rebound and now is dating a girl. I promised I would stay and help this someone cause they might be in a wheel chair soon. This someone also loves someone else but says their only friends. Everytime they talk on the phone they say i love you. I do live with this person and I have no job and am flat broke. This someone always asks me to do things like get her meds and make her lunch and then instead of thank you I get told about something i did wrong. Everytime i try to move on and get a relationship going i feel as if this someone is mad at me. What do you think?

 

Tough situation to be in CV, you sound more like a nurse then a partner (no offence) but you come to the right place for advice, lot of great ppl on here..

 

Best of luck

 

LiL

[dreamingoftigers]

No one can expect you to take care of them and their issues as they disrespect you.

[dreamingoftigers]

Being in a relationship where someone uses you as a "rebound" is degrading enough. There is no point in degrading yourself more by sticking around to aid this person day in and day out after they treated you that way. Let the person that says "I love you" to them come and take care of them.